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Birth Date :
Vishal Sam is a Bombay Boy of 34 years who’s been in the matrimony process for so long that it’s the only relationship he feels committed to. In fact, he’s enjoying the process too much to stop it. After spending half his salary at coffee shops, the only way he has to recover the money, is to write about his experiences.
Easy-going single Bombay Boy who likes meeting people, studying human behaviour, photography and having chocolate milkshake.
Seeing eye to eye, and touch.
Lack of communication
Anything is fine. As long as it's fun.
Home food. Daal-bhaat.
Should he pay, let her pick up the tab, or offer to go Dutch?
Read Vishal Sampat's account of a date that goes wrong for the right reason
Vishal Sampat Commented
04 Mar 2017
What do you intend to get out of this discussion page? What can this page do to help you better? What do you wish this page could help you with?
02 Mar 2017
So the question should be - what makes me want to stay in the Single Club? It's just to look for someone i want to enter other clubs with.
I hope this discussion page brings together singles on one page. And i welcome ladies to get in touch. Let's get out of here! :) :D
I have had mood swings at work and i take them in my stride. It's part of personality and maybe that's how i am. I don't think it has anything to do with relationships. In fact i would like my partner and the relationship to be the balance on which i can swing my mood - for my good.
In a relationship men sometimes will behave weirdly. They'll be all mushy one day and suddenly turn sour the next day; not talk for days together when they want; or disappear completely and surface later as if nothing has happened. Mood swings at their worst.
14 Feb 2017
It was highly relevant in earlier days of child marriage when parents didn't know how their children would turn out to be.
Gradually as marriageable age increased, people get a fair idea about their own personality and expectations from a life partner.
We've reached a stage now that people getting married are the oldest ever and with so many self-discovery tools available, there is a reducing dependence on Kundali-matching.
However, like any tool, it has its own merits and demerits. Just because one cannot understand it or apply it, doesn't mean it loses its worth. A tool is useful to the one who knows how to use it. Useless to others. And ofcourse, its worth is influenced by how responsible the interpreters of Kundalis are. i.e. the learned Pandits, Maharajs, etc.
I believe it has more merits and demerits and recommend using it as a 'gross negative check' - to flag off any major threats to a relationship or family. To each unto his own.
Like is it important matching kundalis in a love marriage. When we have already decided to spend life together then why should kundali act as a barrier..?????
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