Renica Rego likes to pick up and dwell on the subtle nuances of life, or even people. She almost always finds the allure in the crevices. When not writing, she can be found buried in a book, lost in music, getting misty-eyed over a movie scene, cooking, improving her photography skills, or inappropriately obsessing over some random stuff. In between nurturing her passions, she lives and share her experiences through her blog: www.reniregoblog.com

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Why Are Indian Men So Obsessed With Cricket | Bonobology.Com

How I learned to love cricket

Renica Rego
Renica Rego
Posted on : 18 Jun 2017

She thought his obsession with cricket was driving them apart, but then she learned to love it

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How Forgiving An Affair Stopped Me From Killing Myself | Bonobology

When forgiving an affair stopped me from killing myself

Renica Rego
Renica Rego
Posted on : 08 Sep 2016

Life could have been a withered mess but my spiritual journey gave me the courage to find acceptance and peace

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A Couple Stops Fighting & Takes Flight In Marriage | Bonobology

From exasperating to exemplary in marriage

Renica Rego
Renica Rego
Posted on : 03 Jul 2016

A marriage that was constantly fraught with fights, but then took a leap from skepticism and strife to love and magnanimity. Read Renica Reg...

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Is infidelity limited to physical involvement or does it extend to emotional involvement as well?

Is infidelity limited to physical involvement or does it extend to emotional involvement as well?

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Renica Rego Commented

10 Jun 2017

Comment :

Since you've already tried talking to him about it, maybe now it's time to give him a taste of his own medicine. 

My husband is constantly putting me down in front of others. Be it friends, family or even our children. This has taken a huge toll on my confidence. When I told him, he asked me to not be so sensitive, it's all said in a light hearted way and to encourage me. How do I get him to stop the verbal abuse in our relationship? I don't feel like even spending a minute with him and don't want to talk or see anyone when he is around. This is not the life I want to lead!


Renica Rego

Renica Rego Commented

10 Jun 2017

Comment :

We follow a simple rule. When angry, just zip up and cool down. If the issue is important, we discuss it later. If not, just let it go. Ego is not above relationships.

Anger can burn down any relationship with its flames. I have witnessed divorces where main cause has been anger. What should one do to curb anger and save a relationship from crumbling?


Renica Rego

Renica Rego Commented

20 Mar 2017

Comment :

None must be excused. Verbal and physical absue both are equally destructive. 

In several couples, verbal duel is common. It is expected, routine. When the civility of it all relegates to insults, deliberate assaults, the victim seethes. Mostly, the victim has either an economic or an emotional dependency on the assaulter. Mostly, it's a He on the receiving end.

Then there are some where hands are let loose, and the other organs of torture. Blue marks are hidden under the odhni at work. When these marks get visible, a fall is usually the excuse. Mostly, the recipients of such abuse is a She.

Both are unwarranted, deplorable. The argument, useless one at that, often is: Which one is worse? Which one may be excused? 

What do you think?


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