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Relationship Advice That Lasts - Don

Don't try to change your partner

Vikash Fernandes
Vikash Fernandes
Posted on : 09 Aug 2016

He pushed his girlfriend away, but realised his folly in time to make amends…

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Vikash Fernandes Commented

12 Jan 2017

Comment : Come out of your comfort zone to get something that you aspire for, try to do something that your husband loves but you are not comfortable with, initially that may disappoint you but slowly will work when your husband will do the same for you. This will avail you time to share your feelings.

My daughter doesn't keep well and my husband was posted in another city for a long time. Now he is back but with all these issues we didn't how to have some "us" time. Then with my insistence he started watching TV shows with me. It is almost one year and both of us anticipate the evening time when we can have dinner with our latest fixation on laptop.


Vikash Fernandes

Vikash Fernandes Commented

12 Jan 2017

Comment : Rather than having a Extra Marital Affair i would suggest to discuss the problems with your partner, work on resolving it by surprises dinner, long drives, sitting & chatting at a garden, etc. Every problem has a solution, avoiding a problem is not a solution, it will aggravate the problem in next coming time.

Every human being needs happiness, thus if we discuss we can arrive to a solution that will be in the benefit of both the partners & their families.

Close proximity for hours between two like minded people of opposite sex - who can deny this recipe for a delectable romance brewing? Conflict happens when these two people are in a work relationship as well. The boundary between work relationship and romance is always at a risk of being fluid and shifting. If two such people meet and work for long hours on an assignment or a project, close understanding graduating to a romance seems possible. Given today's work pressures and hours, is it acceptable to have a mutually agreeable romantic relationship with a colleague without compromising the marriage at home?


Vikash Fernandes

Vikash Fernandes Commented

24 Dec 2016

Comment : Money is Important in life, but the question is how important? I have witnessed many relationships that have serious crises of finance still they get together & overcome the problem of course with great efforts.

In marriages we promise to be together in hard & bad times, financial crises is one of the example, when we have promised we have to stay together & face the problems.

For the couples who have not yet married & face this problem, once should be glad that this is the real time to face it & understand how your partner will stay with you in future where you will face more severe problems, where you will be on a complete bed rest & the only person to look after you will be your partner because love & marriages are not only for good times but for both good & bad times.

Money is never an easy subject to address, especially in a romantic relationship. If it's a live-in then it's even worse. But friction does happen over managing money, deciding whether an expense is a necessity or a luxury, if both partners should be equal contributors, if the one who is contributing more should have a greater say in matters of money? Questions are too many. But the biggest one of them is: can it break a couple, in spite of them being in love otherwise? What do you think?


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Relationship Advice That Lasts - Don

Don't try to change your partner

Vikash Fernandes
Vikash Fernandes
Posted on : 09 Aug 2016

He pushed his girlfriend away, but realised his folly in time to make amends…

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Comments: 3


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