Commander ‘Jae’ Rajesh is a retired officer from the Indian Navy who loves the outdoors, has travelled and trekked extensively, skydived, and whitewater rafted. He is a fitness aficionado with a passion for photography and music and is settled currently in Hyderabad with his wife and two sons.

 
 

Stories by J Rajesh

I forgot our anniversary - How can I make up for it? | Bonobology.com

10 ways to apologise to your wife for forgetting important dates

J Rajesh
J Rajesh
Posted on : 24 Mar 2017

Forgotten an important anniversary or celebration? Here’s how to make it up to her

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Comments: 0
What Men Want from Women | Bonobology

What men want from women

J Rajesh
J Rajesh
Posted on : 07 Dec 2016

Don’t fall into a rut of familiarity; keep up the mystery

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Platform No.7 & My Tryst With Love: A Short Love Story | Bonobology

Platform No. 7 and my tryst with love

J Rajesh
J Rajesh
Posted on : 19 Sep 2016

An interesting love story, the journey of which, by a strange coincidence, involved several modes of transport

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Difficulties In Marriage Due To Job Loss & Anger Couldn

A good marriage helps tide over tough times

J Rajesh
J Rajesh
Posted on : 15 Aug 2016

By looking beyond my barbs and temper tantrums that were an outcome of a ‘no-work’ phase in my life, my wife became the calm I was looking f...

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Discussions by J Rajesh

What is meant by our 'soul'? Does it require a mate?

We as an individual needs a physical mate. That's nature's design. We'd like an intellectual mate. That's the need generated by our intellect, our min ... Read More


Can you love someone more than yourself?

I have often come across this expression, that "I love her/ him more than myself" or "I love her/ him more than my life". Do you feel it's a reality o ... Read More


Is your spouse or partner your soulmate?

Is it necessary for your spouse or partner to be your soulmate too? Will your relationship suffer if otherwise? ... Read More


What do men want?

While there are many articles, blogs, discussions, talk shows, movies and even stand-up comedy routines on ‘What Women Want’, we hardly see anything t ... Read More


The stereotyping of the husband-wife relationship

Why is there a stereotyping of the husband as a henpecked man with a roving eye and living in fear of the spouse and the wife always as a nagging over ... Read More



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J Rajesh Commented

19 Mar 2017

Comment : Relationships should be forged based on its own merit and not on the demerits of another one. Impulsive action doesn't hold good in any relationship. A rebound is a classic example of an act of impulse. A relationship on the rebound is not based on mutual attraction or respect but of a desire to spite your ex and obliterate the remnants of that broken relationship. Such relationships rarely last and what's worse, you'll find it difficult to get back to the mental space of a stable, healthy relationship.

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17 Mar 2017

Finding your Soulmate in your Spouse | Bonobology

Is your spouse your soul mate too?

Tuli Banerjee
Tuli Banerjee
Posted on : 17 Mar 2017

Commander ‘Jae’ Rajesh wonders if it is necessary for your spouse to be your soul mate too. Bonobology readers share their views...

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J Rajesh Commented

16 Mar 2017

Comment :

If you are into judging the partners patience, trustworthiness etc..forget the distance, the relationship will fail either which way. 

Long distance relationships are often complicated with lots of if's and but's. DO we look these relationships as a parameter to judge the respective partner's patience, trustworthiness, and consistency towards the relationship, based on which you will take an action forward. What your take?


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J Rajesh Commented

16 Mar 2017

Comment :

Dear dead serious girls,

Why on earth are you marrying morons and then cribbing? You are smart enough to get professionally qualified, get promising jobs and have a potentially bright career. But you don't have the sense to select or reject the right or wrong guy when it comes to marriage? We can preach till the cows come home on what the husbands and boyfriends should understand. Well, some do and some don't. It's in their upbringing. Nothing you can do about it now. So, whether the boys will smell the coffee or the stale diapers, it's up to you, dear dead serious girls to decide whether you want that career. And if you want it, go get it. Ditch the moron if you have to. Don't look for excuses.

Girls are dead serious about theircareer goals, guys. It's high time boyfriends and husbands understand this fact and learn to support their spouses wholeheartedly. Lessons learnt by the small-town Romeo, Badrinath in his quest to win over his saucy and resolute Dulhania in the eponymous movie, that's driven home the message through a dash of humour and romance. I loved the film for the way it turned patriarchal notions on its head and gave two thumbs up to feminism. 

 


J Rajesh

J Rajesh Commented

16 Mar 2017

Comment :

If the person we are close to is also close to us, it's ideal! But why let others state of mind affect yours? First let the relationship within ourselves be happy. The other relationships will follow suit :)



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