Saumya Tewari is a PhD student at TISS, Mumbai, specialising in public policy and is an independent social research consultant and writer.  To take a break from serious public policy and academic writing, she hopes to write a novel soon.

Happily single!

Being upfront

Jane Eyre

Plays, trekking

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Stories by Saumya Tewari

Why Are Men Denied Of Fatherhood | Bonobology.Com

Why do we deny fatherhood to men?

Saumya Tewari
Saumya Tewari
Posted on : 26 Jun 2017

Why this father feels jealous of his baby’s mom!

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Indian Arranged Marriage - Through the eyes of a Woman | Bonobology.com

This is how the Indian marriage market works

Saumya Tewari
Saumya Tewari
Posted on : 27 Mar 2017

The marriage market described in terms of economic and social theory

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What is the current trend on Matrimonial sites | Bonobology.com

What men and women look for when browsing online matrimony sites

Saumya Tewari
Saumya Tewari
Posted on : 23 Mar 2017

Indians prefer matrimony portals to dating sites when they marry and caste and community still important in matrimony, says the Head of Mark...

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Not looking for a relationship | Bonobology

I'm not looking for a relationship

Saumya Tewari
Saumya Tewari
Posted on : 28 Feb 2017

They began to be intimate, but then he said…

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Reasons why Married Men get Irritated | Bonobology

The top 5 irritants in a married man's world

Saumya Tewari
Saumya Tewari
Posted on : 06 Jan 2017

What are the five top reasons married men get irritated?

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Blogs published by Saumya Tewari

I Am In Love, But No One Cares

Some don't see it

Some can't feel it

Wherever I go, you are the one I miss

In solitude, you are the one I want to be with

M ...

Saumya Tewari    
SaumyaTewari 01 Apr 2017
 
Views: 567

Love Was Blind When You Closed Your Eyes

Love Was Blind When You Closed Your Eyes


They told me love was blind

But think about it, how can that be?

I knew what ...

Saumya Tewari    
SaumyaTewari 17 Apr 2017
 
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Discussions by Saumya Tewari

Paternity Leave: How useful in a modern marriage?

The reason that was stated for not giving paternity leave in India was that men will "misuse" it to get extra days off. It is a huge blow ... Read More


When women woo men

Fellow community members, a simple question- why can't men handle women asking them out or wooing them? Why do women have to wait for the ... Read More


What is feminism to men?

I read a question for women in the recent discussions about feminism! 

Just wanted to ... Read More


Online Matrimony vs Online Dating: Which one would you prefer and why?

Turns out that the world of online matrimony is not very different from the real matrimony market- where the important variables are caste, co ... Read More


What do men feel about marriage markets?

Do men also feel that they are judged in the marriage market - for their looks, jobs, assets? Do men also feel that they are forced into matrimony? Sh ... Read More



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Activity by Saumya Tewari

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Saumya Tewari Commented

19 Jun 2017

Comment :

No, please don't give in to physical abuse. Take your time to think what YOU want. No need to indulge in an arguement- sorry, but he has to apologise and find a way to make it up to you...

He slapped me and did not even bother to say sorry. What should I do? Ignore or react? I am scared to indulge in an argument but I am not Okay with physical abuse. I really confused and scared.


Saumya Tewari

Saumya Tewari Commented

16 Jun 2017

Comment :

Love is multi-dimensional, true. I know of a tale where the affair kept the marriage going. But the one outside the marriage keeps hope that someday the affair will turn into a relationship where they can have their share of togetherness.

The ones in the marriage in this case have managed to make their lives fulfilling. But life has become unfair for the one who longs for care in the affair but ends up lonely everyday!


Saumya Tewari

Saumya Tewari Commented

09 Jun 2017

Comment :

Thank you for your comment. I was just asking a general question to the community- not looking for dating tips ;)

Fellow community members, a simple question- why can't men handle women asking them out or wooing them? Why do women have to wait for the man to ask her out. Why do my friends tell me "nooo, you see if he is coming for you, if he calls you first"? I can't even think of any movies where the woman courts her man or confesses her love and he does not hurt her. She has to wait for him to come after her/ to realize. Why does it seem as if it ONLY depends on the man's will?!

 


Saumya Tewari

Saumya Tewari Commented

09 Jun 2017

Comment :

Its better to forget and move ahead. Its not really sex without consent, it just what they call a "drunken mistake" in movies! 

She should keep in mind not to get that drunk in the future around people she does not want to be involved with, that's all..

A friend of mine is in a spot. She says she had sex with a guy when they were both drunk. But she is not sure how it got to that stage. Is it sex without consent when a person is too drunk to remember? I have asked her to talk to the guy but she says he does not remember much as he was quite drunk too. I don't know what to advise her.


Saumya Tewari

Saumya Tewari Commented

27 May 2017

Comment : A happy family with a single parent is any day above a family with abusive/ unhappy parents. It is our own construction that children need both parents. No, they don't. And its time we accepted that as a society that marriages should not be held on to only because we feel children need "both" parents. Children are tender, but they are also smart, and they don't like abusive people anyway. It is better to keep your children out of it, if it is a bad marriage!
His Approach To Sex Was Not The Way I Expected | Sexual Incompatibility | Bonobology.Com

Why his approach to sex destroyed their marriage

Gita Negi
Gita Negi
Posted on : 27 May 2017

The problems began in the bedroom because of his business-like approach, and then simply escalated

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