Shailendra Gulhati is a Jammu based Shaivite author who has 5 books to his credit. He has been called upon to participate twice in the SAARC Writers Summit as also in the Festival of India held at Thailand.

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Inception, the film.

 
 

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प्रभुअग्निः शिव और सती के प्रेम से सीखे गए पाठ

Shailendra Gulhati
Shailendra Gulhati
Posted on : 31 Mar 2017

जब प्रेम गहरा होता है, वह आध्यात्मिक ऊंचाईयों को स्पर्श कर लेता है।

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The God of Desire | Bonobology

The God of desire

Shailendra Gulhati
Shailendra Gulhati
Posted on : 24 Feb 2017

On the occasion of Shivratri, we ponder the tantra of Sristi (creation)

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Love Story for Eternity | Bonobology

Perfect transmission for eternal love

Shailendra Gulhati
Shailendra Gulhati
Posted on : 29 Dec 2016

Romance in the days before social media and smartphones meant long face-to-face conversations and wooing with poetry

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Discussions by Shailendra Gulhati

Ancient Indian Heritage indicates that the sensual is a part of the sacred. How does one achieve this?

Ancient Indian Heritage indicates that the sensual is a part of the sacred. How does one achieve this?

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Is a man 'wired' to be possessive about his woman?

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Shailendra Gulhati Commented

10 Jun 2017

Comment :

Absolutely true. A real threat. what can one do to avoid this? oh well, learn to keep your anger at bay at least for a minute before you explode into an un retractable statement.If its been going on for a while/worsening  i guess one has to take professional help. the thing is, if your relationship matters to you, then you will do something to rid yourself of this negative trait that is detrimental to your love. If you arent in love at all, then your anger will actually burn it all down for you in any case.But do take time to consider what makes you angry, something about your partner directly, or then 'other people" this, i feel, can be a key in resolution.

 

Anger can burn down any relationship with its flames. I have witnessed divorces where main cause has been anger. What should one do to curb anger and save a relationship from crumbling?


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

06 Jun 2017

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Has it always been like this? were you happily in love and doing things to impress/surprise each other? is it mid life crisis? you know, more to do with a man's problems in the office....you havent mentioned if you have children...

these are some factors you ought to consider. And then, yes give it your best. try to rekindle the fire, because walking out or getting into a new relationship isnt kid stuff.and above all, be honest with yourself- is there any chance that you were already looking for an exit? if so, then its a different situation altogether. My advice would be to stay with him if you were in love and that remembrance still gives you a flutter....

I miss attention,romance,flatter from my husband.I keeping ego and everything aside and explained him my feelings.But no improvement what to do? This makes me more vulnerable for other men, for instance there was a guy how used to flirt with me and I enjoyed it though it's past and I never crossed any limits.But my husband keeps me vulnerable to such temptations.what to do? Please help me.


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

04 Jun 2017

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Its a double edged sword. Social media has definitely opened up many vistas to 'meet' like minded people.It does have a possibility of making  new friends. but then, it can also damage 'real life' relationships for mere 'virtual' ones. i think changing the moral fabric is dependant on the younger, and perhaps more impressionable minds, we do try to be larger than life, the ultimate bindass and swag people behind our dp images.So yes,it  has to be handled with a sense of maturity that comes from real life experience.

How do you look at this newly acquired freedom, convenience and opportunity by people for expressing themselves, in one to one communications ? Is this impact on moral fabric or induced change in society, in the right direction ?


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

31 May 2017

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Osho used to clearly explain the difference between being alone and being lonely. The first is only a physical phenomenon not necessarily leading to the second which is a state of mind.

Given that you mean being lonely when single or being lonely when in a relationship, the second is surely the worse predicament.

Which loneliness is harder to deal with, being alone (unattached) or being lonely even in a relationship? 


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

31 May 2017

Comment : Cinderalla story :Get your Godmother to gift you a pair of Smouatz heels, the prince is just a bonus.

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