Shailendra Gulhati is a Jammu based Shaivite author who has 5 books to his credit. He has been called upon to participate twice in the SAARC Writers Summit as also in the Festival of India held at Thailand.

loves mysticism and mankind.

Inception, the film.

 
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The God of Desire | Bonobology

The God of desire

Shailendra Gulhati
Shailendra Gulhati
Posted on : 24 Feb 2017

On the occasion of Shivratri, we ponder the tantra of Sristi (creation)

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Love Story for Eternity | Bonobology

Perfect transmission for eternal love

Shailendra Gulhati
Shailendra Gulhati
Posted on : 29 Dec 2016

Romance in the days before social media and smartphones meant long face-to-face conversations and wooing with poetry

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Shailendra Gulhati Commented

17 Mar 2017

Comment :

Absolutely! its from the inception of the very universe! guys havent you heard of God and Mother Nature? He thinks, she executes, he sings a verse, she paints it on the canvas of the world..and together they make all life come alive. so it is with us! together we make all things come true.i am so glad my wife is a super talented lady and does her Exquisite Kashmiri designer wear for ladies, far more creative than me , who's an automobile business owner. the two are so divergent, but heyy, when we cosy up in the evenings for our beer, there's real pride in what the other does. I salute all the girls who go to work and expand their horizons. remember women uphold exactly half the world!

 

 

Girls are dead serious about theircareer goals, guys. It's high time boyfriends and husbands understand this fact and learn to support their spouses wholeheartedly. Lessons learnt by the small-town Romeo, Badrinath in his quest to win over his saucy and resolute Dulhania in the eponymous movie, that's driven home the message through a dash of humour and romance. I loved the film for the way it turned patriarchal notions on its head and gave two thumbs up to feminism. 

 


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Raksha Bharadia is a writer and editor. She has authored three books published by Rupa & Co. She has put together 13 titles in the Chicken Soup for the Indian Soul series for Westland. She has also worked as a scriptwriter with Star Plus. She has been a columnist for Femina, Ahmedabad Mirror, and DNA, Ahmedabad. Raksha has taught creative writing for a Master’s Program at CEPT, Ahmedabad. Bonobology.com is Raksha’s first significant foray in the digital space.


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Shailendra Gulhati Commented

03 Mar 2017

Comment : interesting. :)

Is it necessary for your spouse or partner to be your soulmate too? Will your relationship suffer if otherwise?


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

03 Mar 2017

Comment : Rajesh, yes my wife is my soulmate. My 'girlfriend',lover, best buddy, my refuge, my adventure , my weakness and my strength. I do realise everyone doesnt get that lucky. But its been my constant refrain that this is the very best boon God can give: that your partner be your soulmate.and, the mirror : your soulmate being your partner, gives you a better idea of how wonderful a life shared with someone you love more than yourself can be.

i wouldnt say your relationship would suffer if your soulmate isnt your spouse, you can still have a great marriage, but im saying its ideal, its the highest gift. cheers.

Is it necessary for your spouse or partner to be your soulmate too? Will your relationship suffer if otherwise?


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

03 Mar 2017

Comment : Yes, Deepa. Absolutely! men constantly seem to battle between their love and 'the market' .

Men are exposed a lot to the mundane world, they tend to worry about their women in this 'wicked' place,many times losing thier calm over situations which 'can happen'.

Men with thier other male firends are loud about their jokes and stuff, under the garb of boys will be boys; but the same men actually become putty in their ladies arms- they want to! so i think its a self imposed dichotomy . for years the wise ones have been telling us to acknowledge the balance of yin yang within, to empower the softer feelings....

i somehow think its the false machoism we try to project all the time that is responsible for the erratic behaviour. But this i can vouch, Real Men love their women to the end of the world. :)

In a relationship men sometimes will behave weirdly. They'll be all mushy one day and suddenly turn sour the next day; not talk for days together when they want; or disappear completely and surface later as if nothing has happened. Mood swings at their worst.



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