Shailendra Gulhati is a Jammu based Shaivite author who has 5 books to his credit. He has been called upon to participate twice in the SAARC Writers Summit as also in the Festival of India held at Thailand.

loves mysticism and mankind.

Inception, the film.

 
 

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प्रभुअग्निः शिव और सती के प्रेम से सीखे गए पाठ

Shailendra Gulhati
Shailendra Gulhati
Posted on : 31 Mar 2017

जब प्रेम गहरा होता है, वह आध्यात्मिक ऊंचाईयों को स्पर्श कर लेता है।

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The God of Desire | Bonobology

The God of desire

Shailendra Gulhati
Shailendra Gulhati
Posted on : 24 Feb 2017

On the occasion of Shivratri, we ponder the tantra of Sristi (creation)

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Love Story for Eternity | Bonobology

Perfect transmission for eternal love

Shailendra Gulhati
Shailendra Gulhati
Posted on : 29 Dec 2016

Romance in the days before social media and smartphones meant long face-to-face conversations and wooing with poetry

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Discussions by Shailendra Gulhati

Ancient Indian Heritage indicates that the sensual is a part of the sacred. How does one achieve this?

Ancient Indian Heritage indicates that the sensual is a part of the sacred. How does one achieve this?

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Is a man 'wired' to be possessive about his woman?

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Activity by Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

26 Apr 2017

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a very difficult thing to reply. Because no one else is you or your wife, but depending on what you do next, both your lives are at a possible crossroad. There are some things only you know, like  has this happened earlier also? are you truly sorry and want to be with your wife always? somehow, i am prone to thinking that if you really love her, love will find a way to tell, and live honestly from hereon.

I had a one night stand three weeks ago at a work trip. I feel horrible about it and want to come clean with my wife as she is making grand arrangements for our 10 year anniversary.  How do I tell my wife I had an affair ? Or should I not tell her at all?


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

25 Apr 2017

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'if the couple is devoted to each other, they won't drift. " i totally agree with Tania. Facebook is only a facilitator and what a wonderful one at that! something about it that makes it 'almost real' and billions use it the world over. Of course there is bound to be conversation between old flames ,and the igniting of new ones too! but in the end the only difference between our times and days of yore, is this 'easy access',So it doesnt mean infidelity never existed earlier, else we wont hear of that terrible invention called chastity belt in the medieval times! more importantly ,we need to move on from the medeival mindset..and those who have good understandings with their spouses will not find themselves in situations where they lose control of their moorings over a chat.. is what i feel.

 

Flirty messages and photographs found on Facebook are increasingly being cited as proof of unreasonable behaviour or irreconcilable differences. Many cases revolve around social media users who get back in touch with old flames they hadn't heard from in many years.

Guys...share your thoughts here! Do you know people who have shared about their marriage being affected because of FB? 


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

25 Apr 2017

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a beautiful reply, Saheli. Yes , indeed the ancients respected women as harbingers of fertility.And yes the Shivlinga is our ultimate symbol, which means different things at different levels. While it is obviously suggestive of procreation, it also points to transcendence.Shiva as pure light , cannot be 'held' except by the cosmic yoni, which is creation itself!


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

12 Apr 2017

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Skipping a heartbeat every single time i saw her,when i was single ...married happily to the same lady, but would love that feeling again!!

Our priorities get changed when we got married. Sometime we miss few things about being single....What is that things you would love to do again after getting married ????


Shailendra Gulhati

Shailendra Gulhati Commented

12 Apr 2017

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Its been a while..unless you count getting our daughter married ! It was a whole project together with my wife! lol. But yes in the past we had our great moments...it was so much fun when we went para sailing  together, or then white water rafting...a cruise on the mediterranean..and how can i forget the first time being together in a jacuzzi!  its always superb when you try out things first time with the one you love..



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