Veteran Wing Commander Arun Kaul is an alumnus of St. Stephen’s College. A graduate and post graduate in English Literature from Delhi University and a post graduate from the Faculty of Management Studies, he has served the Indian Air Force. He has also been the Group Head-Human Resources with Arvind Mills. He is the author of Only One Life To Give, a book featuring real life stories.

One who wants to live by ones own values and be honest to others.

Live my life fully.

Deceit

Farewell to Arms

Country Music

Continental

 
 

Stories by Arun Kaul

Divorce Advice | Dealing With Divorce | Bonobology.Com

Considering divorce and feeling lost? Here’s help!

Arun Kaul
Arun Kaul
Posted on : 12 May 2017

Divorce is often seen as a taboo topic and people are not willing to talk about it. Here are some resources that might help you deal with it...

Views: 683
Comments: 0
When the Pilot

When an Air Force officer's wife is paranoid about flying

Arun Kaul
Arun Kaul
Posted on : 17 Mar 2017

He thrived on flying, while she lived in fear of accidents. How did they manage?

Views: 1.02k
Comments: 1
How they complement each other in their marriage | Bonobology

She got a letter after her marriage...

Arun Kaul
Arun Kaul
Posted on : 07 Feb 2017

He was a dashing and popular bachelor and then he got married. How would his wife deal with his past?

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Comments: 0
How Do Cultural Relationships & Environments Affect A Couple? | Bonobology

How does a couple's environment affect their relationship?

Arun Kaul
Arun Kaul
Posted on : 13 Oct 2016

The environment surrounding a married couple often has a great impact on how their relationship progresses, as this story illustrates

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Discussions by Arun Kaul

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Arun Kaul

Arun Kaul Commented

12 May 2017

Comment :

We should take advantage of all forms of media to make people aware of all forms of abuse. We should break the silence within families too.

We need to educate women on different forms of abuse in relationship. They need to be aware so that they can speak up. Best ways to do this?


Arun Kaul

Arun Kaul Commented

12 May 2017

Comment :

Age difference does not matter to a relationship/marriage. The point in case is the French President. What matters is the persons involved, the relationship and the feelings.

 

Was reading an article, named, 'Mind the gap',  in world news, where it is a new theory, that partners of same age, seem to have a long lasting marriage or relationship, wheras a considerable age-difference like more than 5 years, has more number of fall outs. 

The new france PM, who is 39, is married to a 65 year old woman and he says, it s abig deal in media as, the woman is elder. He questions our society and asks, would it matter if he instead was 65 and lady was 40... 


Arun Kaul

Arun Kaul Commented

05 May 2017

Comment :

I agree with you. Your thoughts provide an answer to the issue raised by Mr. Goel. Ideally, one should introspect so that they do not repeat their past mistakes. 


Arun Kaul

Arun Kaul Commented

05 May 2017

Comment :

Definitely some move from one marriage to the next without picking up deep learning. But there are many more who do learn from the divorce. Then there is another set of people who have what we call a valid cause for divorce, say cruelty and such reasons. Your view wil make people think about the learning they can take from their marriage or divorce. 


Arun Kaul

Arun Kaul Commented

05 May 2017

Comment :

Your views are very balanced and reflect the best suited way to separate. Of the many books on divorce that are available in the Indian market, most deal with the legal issues or talk of personal experiences. The book which echoes your view is Untying the fine knots: How to deal with divorce and I am sure it comes handy to people who go through this strife. 



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