Tania Dey is a biotech student, more inclined towards literature. She’s a performance poet and writes fiction, aspiring to be a writer in the near future. She’s also a part time debater, editor (she heads her college magazine’s editorial team), and an anchor. She blogs at Antevasin, Attravarsiamo .

Insanity, kindness, strength.

Love.

Politics.

The Lowlands.

Parched. Pink.

Chinese, Continental.

 
 

Stories by Tania Dey

Our Love Story | Bonobology

They never spoke of their love

Tania Dey
Tania Dey
Posted on : 13 Mar 2017

She never told him how she felt but…

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The Art of Arranged Marriage | Bonobology

The prospective groom and I

Tania Dey
Tania Dey
Posted on : 02 Jan 2017

Often, my mother came across good guys, and caught them in a trap for me. This time I was fully prepared

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Comments: 8

 

Discussions by Tania Dey

When trying to find someone new, what should we look for in him ?

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Tania Dey Commented

04 May 2017

Comment :

One can always try to approach the person of interest, make attempts to get to know the person better. Crushes are mostly based on attraction, and that person may not be what we think he/she is. It is always good to befriends with the person, know him/her thoroughly, before taking in plunges. And a decent try can never become clingy! Just a coffee or a lunch date maybe, and who knows it might click!

Is it okay to try, by calling, texting, or asking out for a casual cup of coffee, or in order to not look clingy or like a chaser, keep the feelings to yourself and let go? Especially of the person you like doesn't seem too interested or is unapproachable?


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Tania Dey Commented

29 Apr 2017

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Masculinity and Feminity are relative factors, I am a female, but I function like a male,( for example I have difficulty in expressing emotions.) What masculinity and feminity essentially is, arises from how we define it. We all have a mixture of both the traits in us. What happens is sometimes we move to male bashing instead of Feminism and that needs to be checked. We cannot afford to threaten the male. 

Backing feminism, Ladies do you feel we are disconnecting with our femininity?

 


Tania Dey

Tania Dey Commented

29 Apr 2017

Comment :

Masculinity and Feminity are relative factors, I am a female, but I function like a male,( for example I have difficulty in expressing emotions.) What masculinity and feminity essentially is, arises from how we define it. We all have a mixture of both the traits in us. What happens is sometimes we move to male bashing instead of Feminism and that needs to be checked. We cannot afford to threaten the male. 

Backing feminism, Ladies do you feel we are disconnecting with our femininity?

 


Tania Dey

Tania Dey Commented

25 Apr 2017

Comment :

Facebook or for that matter any social media can hamper a marriage and bring in infidelity. It is not unknown that couples do cheat each other by exchanging messages, talking to old/new interests, etc. But then blaming social media alone is pointless, because if the couple is devoted to each other, they won't drift. Only if there are loopholes within, will the question of being unfaithful arise. 

Flirty messages and photographs found on Facebook are increasingly being cited as proof of unreasonable behaviour or irreconcilable differences. Many cases revolve around social media users who get back in touch with old flames they hadn't heard from in many years.

Guys...share your thoughts here! Do you know people who have shared about their marriage being affected because of FB? 


Tania Dey

Tania Dey Commented

09 Apr 2017

Comment :

Ah! This is civilisation. Since ages, women are known to work at homes, and men outside, hence when they find a role reversal, they will ask you to keep quiet about it: else the herd will come to know about it. It's still tribal dynamics my friend, people need to start getting out of this stone age mentality. How far we can, that is the question! 

A friend of mine says that her husband helps her with chores only if she agrees not to discuss the same in his family, he is OK lending her support but no one should know, especially his mom. What is shameful in letting the world know that a husband cares for his wife?



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