Madhuri is the author of Untying the fine knots: How to deal with Divorce. She is a writer of children’s fiction and has also ghost-written three books of business fiction and non-fiction. An alumna of IIM-Ahmedabad, she worked in marketing and business development before becoming a full-time writer. She grew up in Vijayawada and now lives in Ahmedabad.

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Dealing with the Ex | Bonobology

Your happiness matters more than your ex's unhappiness

Madhuri
Madhuri
Posted on : 24 Dec 2016

She came through a divorce to write about the experience to help others in similar situations. Here is an excerpt from Untying the fine knot...

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01 Jan 2017

Comment : Probably love thrives best when we retain enough space around ourselves occasionally, sometimes more and sometimes less depending on our need for private space. This way, we reduce the moments of friction too. Something like – absence makes the heart grow fonder. But most of all, we ought to ask ourselves what love means to us personally. To some it might be a hot shared cuppa in the morning. To another it might be a long relaxed drive with the partner. And so on.

The spark, the wait and the love seem to be getting vanished after few years of marriage. Whether it's getting divided between the increasing members in family or somewhere getting vanished with this rush-over time of pseudo world responsibility..Is it really missing or somewhere the love awaits to be revealed ..it's just a hug away..What is your opinion?


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Madhuri Commented

01 Jan 2017

Comment : How to spend or save money can be one of the many contentious issues in a marriage. The obvious reason is that the couple differs in what money means to them – the pleasure in the things it can buy (what to spend it on) or the feel of stability it provides (savings). When these pleasures or stability factors are critical to either of them, it can trigger deep dissonance. The less obvious reason is that while we are capable of managing plenty of differences, it depends on our readiness to manage these. If the marriage already carries deep dissonance, money simply becomes an additional factor and can even be the last straw on the camel’s back.

Money is never an easy subject to address, especially in a romantic relationship. If it's a live-in then it's even worse. But friction does happen over managing money, deciding whether an expense is a necessity or a luxury, if both partners should be equal contributors, if the one who is contributing more should have a greater say in matters of money? Questions are too many. But the biggest one of them is: can it break a couple, in spite of them being in love otherwise? What do you think?


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Veteran Wing Commander Arun Kaul is an alumnus of St. Stephen’s College. A graduate and post graduate in English Literature from Delhi University and a post graduate from the Faculty of Management Studies, he has served the Indian Air Force. He has also been the Group Head-Human Resources with Arvind Mills. He is the author of Only One Life To Give, a book featuring real life stories.


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Sujata Parashar is a novelist, poet, short story writer and social activist. She has written seven books so far. Her debut novel, In Pursuit of Infidelity (2009) was a bestseller. Her latest book is a collection of short stories, That Woman You See (2015). Sujata has been recently selected for the Karamveer Chakra Award, instituted by iCongo in association with the UN, conferred to change makers, innovators and individuals who bring about positive social impact in the lives of people and the planet. Find out more about her on her website



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