Shifa Maitra is a creative consultant who is media agnostic, currently India content head for Fame Digital.

 
 

Stories by Shifa Maitra

I love my Mother in Law | Bonobology

Don't love me, love my mom

Shifa Maitra
Shifa Maitra
Posted on : 06 Feb 2017

She divorced the man, but his mother was a different story

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Finding True Love | The First Love Returns After 20 Years | Bonobology

Meant to be...when your one true love returns after twenty years

Shifa Maitra
Shifa Maitra
Posted on : 24 Nov 2016

Shifa Maitra recounts her friend Ishaani’s tryst with love and how, eventually, it did conquer all…

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How to manage Political differences in a relationship | Bonobology

Pati, Patni and Politics: How to manage differences in political views

Shifa Maitra
Shifa Maitra
Posted on : 08 Nov 2016

Whatever your differences in politics, they must not seep into your relationship

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Love & Friendship - A Winning Formula For Marriage | Bonobology

Three Cheers to a Friendship that Makes their Marriage Rock!

Shifa Maitra
Shifa Maitra
Posted on : 05 Aug 2016

When you marry your best friend and remain friends no matter how many years pass by, it becomes a marriage for keeps…

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Getting over a Break Up like Deepika Padukone | Bonobology.com

Deepika Padukone and the art of being cool with your ex

Shifa Maitra
Shifa Maitra
Posted on : 23 Jun 2016

Shifa Maitra is all praises for the star who seems to have managed to juggle Ranbir and Ranveer, but wonders if everyone can do the same

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Discussions by Shifa Maitra

Do marriages on reality tv actually work?

Mona Lisa just married her boyfriend on BigBoss 10 but i find it fake. What's your take? ... Read More



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Shifa Maitra Commented

05 Apr 2017

Comment :

Thanks Vaishali, this is an important discussion thread you have begun. I got married for the second time after my divorce and like you mentioned it's never easy but the second time around I think you are wiser and less rigid so you tend to value each other more, so yes I think more people should like you and me give love a second chance!

Marrying again after losing your spouse in the 30s , requires different set of skills as opposed to the first marriage. When you marry for the first time, you are in love, you are young and you think its for ever. In your second marriage , you come with a baggage, you are set in your ways, you have your children and add on his too, and you are older and worldy wise. You need to be patient and mature in this marriage for everything to fall in place.

i have been remarried for 13 years now, after losing my spouse at the age of 38. Four years later I found my second husband who too had lost his wife at a young age.We faced many challenges, on work front,home front and with our children but have managed to survive all the storms and are now cruising together .

Would love to answer any query or doubts anyone has of taking the plunge for the second time.


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Shifa Maitra Commented

01 Apr 2017

Comment :

I think she should take the initiative and ask him to commit. Life is too short to be shy! Since they have both been through relationships that have not worked out in the past they should give it their best and make this one work. If he does like her and is commitment phobic, i think he is normal..she will just have to be assertive and get him to realise what he is missing out on.

If on the other hand he is using his shyness as a ploy to not commit she should find out and then walk away...

They are good friends..have met each other though!!!!they like each other...she wants to be with him...but he won't initiate anything..he has a girl child whom he dotes on ...what should she do?


Shifa Maitra

Shifa Maitra Commented

15 Feb 2017

Comment : I would say friendship, trust and loads of patience is what is needed

What are the top three priorities that we need to focus on, as we work actively on sustenance and success of domestic nuptials? Communication, integrity, loyalty, clarity, consensus, financial sync, household duty shares?


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Shifa Maitra Commented

31 Jan 2017

Comment : I think indians just love being peeping toms, it's strange when seemingly normal people get so emotional about the love lifes of celebrities. get a life guys!

This morning music composer Vishal Dadlani's divorce made it to the front page. Why do we really care? Why do people spend hours agonising over Hrithik-Sussane, Farhan-Adhuna or Arbaaz-Mallaika's marriage? Why not pay attention to your own?


Shifa Maitra

Shifa Maitra Commented

20 Jan 2017

Comment : indian stars also sell their wedding pics! you are right it is a sign of the times

Mona Lisa just married her boyfriend on BigBoss 10 but i find it fake. What's your take?



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