Abhijit Gadre is a professional tea taster and blender of repute. He is also a poet and a story teller, published in different languages. Recognized as a thinker.

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Remembering His First Love As The Norwesters Blow | Bonobology

Every April when the Nor'westers strike, I remember her

Abhijit Gadre
Abhijit Gadre
Posted on : 19 Jul 2016

Abhijit Gadre walks down the memory lane and reminisces about his first brush with romance

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Abhijit Gadre Commented

01 Dec 2016

Comment : Thinking must not be confused with attention. Mostly a spouse when referring to thinking is hinting at attention towards him/her rather than the cognitive thinking of an individual. Thinking is the process of considering or reasoning about something. A spouse, mostly a wife is interested in attention.

Everyone knows what attention is. It is the taking possession by the mind in clear and vivid form, of one out of what seem several simultaneously possible objects or trains of thought...It implies withdrawal from some things in order to deal effectively with others.

When Raksha refers to "our" she must mean gender specific. LOL

Whenever our partners cannot handle our intensity they say 'don't think too much'..thoughts, comments people?


Abhijit Gadre

Abhijit Gadre Commented

01 Dec 2016

Comment : Why add more pain to the agony of marriage?

Is it ok to completely avoid talking of the details of our past relationships? Does the past really matter enough to be spoken about?


Abhijit Gadre

Abhijit Gadre Commented

01 Dec 2016

Comment : Naturally not, one cannot think of such a situation if you are a free thinker but again a majority of people live a life without that mostly in Abrahmanic religions. Imagine Muslim women being deprived by circumcision during childhood and the chastity of Catholics during virginity and not allowing abortions etc.

Sexual chemistry (& physics & geography) :) is vital to a marriage. However, in a relationship if the couple is at odds regarding the frequency, the variety, the grammar, the syntax, the vocabulary...... can it still script a fairy tale marriage?


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Abhijit Gadre Commented

07 Nov 2016

Comment : I found one paragraph in the whole story quite strong and exulting and am glad you pondered on it: "Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years," said Simone Signoret. That is true since marriage, the union of two souls and bodies is so much more than what one envisages before tying the knot. There is much of give and take; much to share and to understand each others needs and wants. Surely not easy by any stretch but necessary nonetheless to keep it alive. I wish you had given much more thought to it not only in relation to the subject but to its significance to lifetime relationships between the couples on the whole. Couples do not always take such quick fix remedies to such problems. As a counselor you may have allowed the marriage to be understood in a broader scope.
Marriage Stories | A Marriage On Life Support | Bonobology

A marriage on life support

Suja Sukumaran
Suja Sukumaran
Posted on : 26 Oct 2016

Ironing out differences in a marriage is the toughest task and may often end up leaving a couple in despair

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Abhijit Gadre

Abhijit Gadre Commented

28 Oct 2016

Comment : Nothing new in that. Men tend to get bored easily in such subjects.

I find that women find it easy to talk about partners, men like to keep mum? Is it that they do not feel as much or they just think it is strictly private business?



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