RamKumar is a mechanical engineer from Chennai, working in the automobile industry. He is interested in contemporary literature and translations between English and Tamil.

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Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Posted on : 19 Apr 2017

They came to a divorce lawyer within days of their wedding

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How the Loss of our Cat brought us closer as a Couple | Bonobology.com

The cat that brought us closer

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Posted on : 28 Mar 2017

The kitten they fostered brought them closer together, but then

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Burning bridges in relationships and Moving on after Break Up | Bonobology.com

The importance of burning bridges after a breakup

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Posted on : 23 Jun 2016

How important is it to burn your bridges when a romance dies out? Our contributor shares his story

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Bonobology | Seven years of bliss until one unfortunate visit

Seven years of bliss until one unfortunate visit

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Posted on : 23 May 2016

Ram KR writes passionately about a love gone wrong. Read more to find out!

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Ram Kumar Ramaswamy Commented

19 Apr 2017

Comment :

As long as the other spouse stays rooted and calm, and not escalate it into a shouting game or emotional drama, and treat it as just a venting episode - for what it is, it is fine! Bottling up of feelings is dangerous. Venting is healthy. Understanding is the best.

three outing plans in a row cancelled due to sudden work of hubby. when it finally happened again, i fumed and vented out. he didnt like it at all. cant we ? with the expectation that our partner will be a bit more accepting to our fume out specially since its not a  regular habit !!


Ram Kumar Ramaswamy

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy Commented

19 Apr 2017

Comment :

Pray tell me who do the women have sex with?! There lies the answer. Exposes patriarchy's double standards, what else? Delegitimizing women's desires is the most idiotic thing we can do. Flip side of the ban is, soon, a million more will want to watch. Nobody can supress artistic expressions. 


Ram Kumar Ramaswamy

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy Commented

31 Aug 2016

Comment : You can also take this time off work in earning another degree, a special diploma or just another skill. But get back to working and earning anyway. Since you feel so, it only indicates what you should actually be doing. Work. Earn. Be independent. Best wishes.

I was working for more than seven years before getting married and moving countries. I had to quit my job in the process and have no earnings of my own. It's true that partners contribute to the marriage in ways other than money, but having been independent for so long, I'm unable to spend my husband's money as my own, even on essentials. Do I need to get over it, and if yes, how?


Ram Kumar Ramaswamy

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy Commented

31 Aug 2016

Comment : You can also take this time off work in earning another degree, a special diploma or just another skill. But get back to working and earning anyway. Since you feel so, it only indicates what you should actually be doing. Work. Earn. Be independent. Best wishes.

I was working for more than seven years before getting married and moving countries. I had to quit my job in the process and have no earnings of my own. It's true that partners contribute to the marriage in ways other than money, but having been independent for so long, I'm unable to spend my husband's money as my own, even on essentials. Do I need to get over it, and if yes, how?



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