RamKumar is a mechanical engineer from Chennai, working in the automobile industry. He is interested in contemporary literature and translations between English and Tamil.

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She earned more than him

Salary matters

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Posted on : 19 Apr 2017

They came to a divorce lawyer within days of their wedding

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How the Loss of our Cat brought us closer as a Couple | Bonobology.com

The cat that brought us closer

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Posted on : 28 Mar 2017

The kitten they fostered brought them closer together, but then

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Burning bridges in relationships and Moving on after Break Up | Bonobology.com

The importance of burning bridges after a breakup

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Posted on : 23 Jun 2016

How important is it to burn your bridges when a romance dies out? Our contributor shares his story

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Physical Intimacy and Long Distance Relationship | Bonobology.com

Seven years of bliss until one unfortunate visit

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Ram Kumar Ramaswamy
Posted on : 23 May 2016

Ram KR writes passionately about a love gone wrong. Read more to find out!

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Activity by Ram Kumar Ramaswamy

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy Commented

02 Jun 2017

Comment :

Thank you Anmol!

Has your pet bound you to a schedule and made you realize the lack of quality time you wished to spend with your partner or has it brought your relationship to a new level where you collectively care for a living being and learn the art of selfless giving?

 


Ram Kumar Ramaswamy

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy Commented

30 May 2017

Comment : Office spouse - tricky!
Emotional Infidelity In Marriage | Emotional Affair | Bonobology.Com

I’m cheating on my wife – not physically, but emotionally

Avantika Debnath
Avantika Debnath
Posted on : 30 May 2017

He finds it easier to share his feelings with his work colleague than his wife. Does that make it wrong?

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Ram Kumar Ramaswamy

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy Commented

30 May 2017

Comment :

Never make haste. The grass may probably be greener on your own side. Make peace first. Then, reflect. Take your time. Think deeply if you are ready to have a relationship. Why do you even say, "Move back"? :) Always move ahead, and with full consciousness of what the past was, never to repeat those mistakes. Since one relationship ended, it doesn't mean you are unfit for relationships. Even ten break-ups don't matter if you are in the right mind to pursue the eleventh. All one needs therefore, is that precious time alone to understand oneself better before moving ahead. Cheers!

Often, may be very often and rightly so, before ending a relationship we ponder over the affect that it might have on us; how, and in what ways, our life might not be the same again; how to try and achieve a sort of "settled" feeling in that relationship, knowing that the basic dynamics of it still remains the same- the core question that led to this wish of breaking it off is still unsettled. And also how it might pain or assuage the “significant others” who are actually an inseparable part of this “our” link.

 Is it also about the tussle between “coming out of the so-called comfort zone” (if there is any comfort at all in it) or assumed misconception that “life is always greener on the other side” ?

 


Ram Kumar Ramaswamy

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy Commented

30 May 2017

Comment : sick

“Caption This & Win Prizes!”

Team Bonobology
Team Bonobology
Posted on : 30 May 2017

Let’s think of a story behind this photo

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Ram Kumar Ramaswamy

Ram Kumar Ramaswamy Commented

30 May 2017

Comment : Heels over head for you. Literally.

“Caption This & Win Prizes!”

Team Bonobology
Team Bonobology
Posted on : 30 May 2017

Let’s think of a story behind this photo

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Comments: 116


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