Aarti Pathak is an Economics professor, a writer, a nature lover who looks forward to travel and a mother who loves to dream. She blogs at Sparrow Times

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Stories by Aarti Pathak

I know my wife cannot have children. But I don

When he found out his wife couldn't get pregnant he...

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Aarti Pathak
Posted on : 26 Apr 2017

His wife and in-laws were suspecting him of infidelity or worse, until he could bear it no longer

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Couples that Laugh together

Couples That Laugh Together

Aarti Pathak
Aarti Pathak
Posted on : 06 Apr 2017

How laughter can be the glue that keeps a couple together forever

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Has the Internet made having affairs simpler? | Bonobology.com

Love triangles are passe'. It's time for the Love Pentagon!

Aarti Pathak
Aarti Pathak
Posted on : 23 Mar 2017

Even though society respects and applauds monogamy many are drawn away from it. Infidelity has always been a part of society and will probab...

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The Story of the Old Couple in Love | Bonobology

The lemon tree

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Aarti Pathak
Posted on : 04 Mar 2017

They laughed at the couple sharing their tiffin until a chance remark made them pause

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Love letters from the past | Bonobology

Notes of love, and a lifetime of happiness

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Aarti Pathak
Posted on : 04 Nov 2016

Hemlata wonders what to give Vikram for his birthday, until she discovers something very special

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Blogs published by Aarti Pathak

A Road Less Travelled

It was just another day. I went to the Dog Adoption Camp like I had done, so many times before.

My induction into the world of strays and reh ...

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Discussions by Aarti Pathak

Why are 'single' versus 'in a relationship' discussions often skewed?

Why are 'single' versus 'in a relationship' discussions, more often than not, skewed by what one wants to believe?

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What makes a love marriage fall apart?

I am always baffled when a couple (that married for love) that I have known and admired for years announces that they are separating and are e ... Read More



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23 May 2017

Comment :

Such a simple question yet so deep. It must be exceptionally lonely being in the bored silent kind of relationship...

Maybe the children/work/home/hobbies/friendcircle et all helps them spend the days...

 

When I was younger and married I often saw married couples in malls or parks, sitting together but in complete silence.To me that silence stood for boredom and disinterest but now after having been married I realise that silence is not always that.A good silence between a couple can mean satisfaction and security.Silence may not necessarily mean that theres nothing left to talk but that the relationship has moved beyond conversation.But what if somebody is stuck in a bad silence, where there actually is nothing to talk about.How does one survive emptiness then?


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Aarti Pathak Commented

23 May 2017

Comment :

Oh! that's fabulously expressed! Cannot agree more, 'happy are the ones who are above all these comparisons'... and it is just wrong to compare things that are so fundamentally different.

Why are 'single' versus 'in a relationship' discussions, more often than not, skewed by what one wants to believe?

Why is the best of single life pitted against the worst of couple life and vice versa?

If at all a comparison has to be made, shouldn't it be amongst either the worst of 'single' and 'committed' life or between the best elements of 'single' and 'committed' life?


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