Darshana Doshi is a freelance writer who has written for the Times of India and Mid-Day among others. Human interest stories are close to her heart and she has contributed inspirational stories to the Chicken Soup Series for India. Being a globetrotter, she has also written travel columns. Presently she is working on a book and a script. You can find more of her published work at darshanadoshi.com.

Articles by Darshana Doshi

Liberal Thinking but cannot accept Wife

My wife's male friend

Darshana Doshi
Darshana Doshi
Posted on : 10 Jan 2017

He prides himself on being a metrosexual man with a modern and liberal outlook. What happens when a childhood friend of his wife enters thei...

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Male Victimisation In Indian Society Leads To Abused Husbands | Bonobology

Male victimisation in Indian society

Darshana Doshi
Darshana Doshi
Posted on : 25 Oct 2016

He has bent over backwards trying to fulfil all his family’s wishes, but feels oppressed

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Bonobology | Marital Rape. A Reality in This Marriage | #TryBeatingMeLightly

Marital rape. A reality in this marriage.

Darshana Doshi
Darshana Doshi
Posted on : 31 May 2016

Caught in an abusive marriage Anita wonders when India will criminalise marital rape

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A marriage that thrives on threesomes, sexual escapades and love | Bonobology

A marriage that thrives on threesomes

Darshana Doshi
Darshana Doshi
Posted on : 01 Mar 2016

Can a partner bear that, share in the sexual escapades, and find love? Darshana Doshi explores…

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Discussions by Darshana Doshi

Is watching pornography healthy for a marriage? How much is healthy?

Today's headline in TOI where wife is taking husband to the court for watching porn in excess is quite an eye opener. what is the experience of couple ... Read More


How do you deal with jealousy issues in marriage??

In today's times, where men and women interact freely with each other ,how do you deal with and address jealousy issues in your relationship? ... Read More



Activity by Darshana Doshi

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Darshana Doshi Commented

12 Feb 2017

Comment : Be sure that it isl ove and not passing passion...love means sacrifice and lack of self centeredness which is becoming a rare phenomenon...Once you are sure it is love and that your marriage is a mistake then work on getting out but without hurting anyone in the process and on mutual grounds...

Sometimes the love of your life comes after the mistake of your life. How do you deal with it then when you happen to realize this?


Darshana Doshi

Darshana Doshi Commented

12 Feb 2017

Comment : After an honest evaluation and communication a couple should take a concrete stance and either part ways amicably on mutual grounds or work at fixing the problem...just see how much rot has entered in Indian society due to the hypocrisy where most take advantage of it by saying oh for the sake of society or children we continue but we also continue cheating...This is why the moral fibre of relationships in India is weakening and relationships are getting warped up..I am sure society and children who know everything would eventually see the point and accept the change .We need a huge revolution in India to change this mind set which is not helping anything or anyone except for breeding hypocrisy

It is not uncommon for the marriage to become a drag because of routine, boredom and monotony and one partner may become totally uninterested. The marriage has to continue for various reasons ranging from kids to society. In such a situation if the other partner develops a relationship outside, does the spouse has the right to object ?


Darshana Doshi

Darshana Doshi Commented

30 Jan 2017

Comment : Many a times lack of proper communicatiin ,reinforcement of love and care and lack of reassurance through words and actions is what becomes an accusation.so if the trust was broken ruthlessly give it some time and also work towards it diligently. .most cases accusations will be replaced with love if one has worked honestly..and those cases where the nature of the person is responsible then after counsellors sessions the couple should talk about the solution to try within time frame failing which they may talk about separating....

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When a spouse constantly reminds the other of the mistakes and poor judgments that were done 3, 5, 7 or even 15 years back, it becomes incorrigible. The less fortunate half doesn't have enough logic to defend him or herself after so many years and the vocal one is not willing to let the past go.

What should a couple do then? Ask for separation and move ahead? Trial for reconciliation and peace doesn't last. What's the resort to spend rest of their lives peacefully?


Darshana Doshi

Darshana Doshi Commented

10 Jan 2017

Comment : Yes .Prevention is always better than cure .

In today's times, where men and women interact freely with each other ,how do you deal with and address jealousy issues in your relationship?


Darshana Doshi

Darshana Doshi Commented

10 Jan 2017

Comment : That is a great arrangement a couple can have to save themselves from jealousy , Shubha. However this is possible only both have settled in their relationship where the foundation of trust is built . That is why i guess first few years a couple should work towards it consciously .

In today's times, where men and women interact freely with each other ,how do you deal with and address jealousy issues in your relationship?



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