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Love, A Live-In Relationship and the Law in India | Bonobology

Love, Live-In and the Law

Siddhartha shankar Mishra
Siddhartha shankar Mishra
Posted on : 14 Jun 2016

Lawyer Siddhartha K Mishra talks about couples that live together without being legally married to each other, sometimes as civil partners a...

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Love is blind, they say; sex is impervious to reason and mocks the power of all philosophers. But, in fact, a person's sexual choice is the res ... Read More


Same Love or many Lovers ?

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Is Cyber sex an adultery / cheating ?

Their are couples who are good at and it some divorce. The Online sex world changing perception. How other see and say about it ? ... Read More


Legally Valid or What ?

It might be a matter of debate whether Lord Krishna and Radha lived together or not, but live-in relationships find ample support in Hindu mythology. ... Read More


Why are older women falling on younger guys for fulfillment of their desires ?

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Siddhartha shankar Mishra Commented

05 Jun 2017

Comment : Good one
Why I loved him even though it was one sided | Bonobology.com

Loving someone who doesn't love you back

Sreemoyee Basu
Sreemoyee Basu
Posted on : 21 Mar 2017

They never dated; he moved on, she didn’t, but she doesn’t think it was a mistake

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Siddhartha shankar Mishra Commented

05 Jun 2017

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Finally , One must be ruthlessly honest towards oneself and the partner to survive a relationship. Trust is ann important factor. Once it is lost , it is difficult to compromise. Marriages are not made in heaven, it made on earth and destroyed on Earth. 

Men and women have different reasons to be against sexual promiscuity in marriage. But if you come to know that your partner has been sexually promiscuous without your knowledge and promises to be faithful in future, will you give him/her a chance again?


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Siddhartha shankar Mishra Commented

24 May 2017

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I am quoting here  Osho , " 

The first thing is that up till now, all of human culture has been against sex, against passion. This opposition, this negation has shattered and destroyed the possibility of the birth of love in humans.

The simple truth is that sex is the starting point of all journeys to love. The birthplace of the journey to love is sex. And everybody is inimical to it, all cultures, all religions, all gurus, all holy men. “Sex is sin . . . sex is irreligious . . . sex is poison.” And it never enters our minds that it is sexual energy that ultimately transforms and transmutes into love.

But everyone is against it, is inimical to it. Your so-called good people are against it. And this opposition has not allowed the seed even to sprout. It has destroyed the place of love at is foundation, on the very first step.

How can something to which we have become inimical, to which we are opposed, with which we are continuously fighting, be transformed?

Humans have been set up against their own energy. Humans have been set up to fight against sex energy. On the surface, human beings are taught to support the dropping of all conflicts, all fights, all struggles. But deep down they are essentially being taught to fight: “The mind is poison, so fight against it – the the poison has to be fought against. Sex is sin, so fight against it.”

It is very important to understand one thing in this context. Human beings can never be separated from sex. Sex is the very source of one’s life; one is born out of it. Existence has accepted the energy of sex as the starting point of creation, and our holy men call it sinful … something that existence itself does not consider a sin! " 

It has always neen evidenced in many cases of unhappy couples that the lack of sexual bonding between the couples are somewhere one of the causes of their break-ups. In history sexual life was given as much importance as the emotional life. But in today's technological world when everything we want is just a hand away and all we are almost not left with is tranquility, is the beautiful art of sexualism somewhere missing it's essence and beauty?  Has it become somewhat of a more mechanical than the actual intimacy which  holded great esthatics in the ancient age and was given proper norturing and education?

 


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Siddhartha shankar Mishra Commented

24 May 2017

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It is all about acceptance . You choose your priority. Don't bother . 

I think I have put myself in quite a spot. I had once met my previous boyfriend's ex and we added each other on FB. Never really stayed in touch and meanwhile I broke up with my bf as well. Sometime after that his ex contacted me for some work and we got talking and became friends. I am on good terms with my ex and he continues to be a friend as well. But he does not want his two exes to be pals. I cherish both their friendships and don't know which one to let go of!


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24 May 2017

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Be comfortable ... take it easy ... start normal talk  like how was ur day and routines ... you can know from body language and while conversation if you are aware you can know the deeper aspect. 

Online dating I feel is a bigger gamble than dating someone you'e met through a friend/ college/ work etc. The first date when you meet the person face to face for the first time can be eye opening to understand if you two get along in the real world. What could be some non-intrusive yet insightful questions one can ask to better know the almost stranger sitting across?



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