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Turns out that the world of online matrimony is not very different from the real matrimony market- where the important variables are caste, community, looks, jobs and dowry!
What kind of portals do you prefer to date or to find your special someone?
I've often found myself and many of my (mostly) female friends finding to tough to articulate our needs when in a relationship. It could be anything from wanting more commitment to initiating sex to wanting some space. I don't think this is purely a female problem, but I'm interested in knowing about others out there and how this can be addressed.
Like how can a person adjust in a family after marriage if in -laws don't have acceptability or they don't? give time to adjust. It feels suffocating when no one understands.
In several couples, verbal duel is common. It is expected, routine. When the civility of it all relegates to insults, deliberate assaults, the victim seethes. Mostly, the victim has either an economic or an emotional dependency on the assaulter. Mostly, it's a He on the receiving end.
Then there are some where hands are let loose, and the other organs of torture. Blue marks are hidden under the odhni at work. When these marks get visible, a fall is usually the excuse. Mostly, the recipients of such abuse is a She.
Both are unwarranted, deplorable. The argument, useless one at that, often is: Which one is worse? Which one may be excused?
What do you think?
When i notice the teenagers around me , i feel there is one thing common amongst majority of them . Either they are already in a relationship ( Yes! Even at the age of 14 ) or they are constantly under pressure for finding a GF/BF so that they can fit well in their social circle.
Not just the teenagers but i feel this need to FIT IN has become a major cause of stress for Singles of all age group. Due to this , they sometimes tend to fall in wrong relationships .
I would love to know what others think about this.
Long distance relationships are often complicated with lots of if's and but's. DO we look these relationships as a parameter to judge the respective partner's patience, trustworthiness, and consistency towards the relationship, based on which you will take an action forward. What your take?
Girls are dead serious about theircareer goals, guys. It's high time boyfriends and husbands understand this fact and learn to support their spouses wholeheartedly. Lessons learnt by the small-town Romeo, Badrinath in his quest to win over his saucy and resolute Dulhania in the eponymous movie, that's driven home the message through a dash of humour and romance. I loved the film for the way it turned patriarchal notions on its head and gave two thumbs up to feminism.
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How would/did you change your bedroom after marriage?
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
You think too much!
Why do men think that helping the wife is shameful or makes them henpecked?
Can't help feeling jealous
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