Is it ok to lust for someone else while in a relationship?

Lusting for someone else while in a relationship. How ethical or moral is that?


Be it consciously or subconsciously, you have little control over being attracted to someone and lusting for him or her. Its a phase that should gradually pass if one is committed to a loving relationship. I don't think its something wrong or immoral, as long as it is kept in check.

  • jenny
  • Posted: 26 Aug 2016

Lusting is for a short period of time, love always make you grow out of it.


Sandeep: very well said !!

i guess having lust for someone is quite normal even while in a relationship, but making a further move on that lust is totally immoral.


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