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I am thankful for the second one, but it still comes with a lot of challenges. I have no regrets of leaving the first one, emotional and physical abuse of a partner can't be forgiven.
Don't have personal experience with second marriage. But every marriage comes with a lot of dreams and needs work. Don't think which number of marriage it is should decide that. All we can do is learn from our mistakes.
A friend of mine is getting married again, after she caught his wife cheating on him with his best friend. His wife really harassed him to the point that he could not even meet his kids. He then developed a paranoia! Of marriage. Finally he dated a girl for 4 years and they are now tying the not. He seems happy.
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I want to ask the ladies and gentlemen on this forum if they have been close to a particular friend of the opposite sex before marriage and whether they have managed to maintain the same strong friendship even after they got married or has the intensity dwindled with time?
What do you do when you connect to a person very well while texting, but can hardly feel the connection in person. Is it that the other person responds over texts after thinking but can't respond well because he hardly gets any time to think when he finds you sitting right across? What do you do about the awkward silences that follow?
I've seen most of the Indians having issues with PDA or Public Display of Affection or intimacy, do you have an issue? If so why?
Don't we change all through out life? Every 3-4 years we can't believe what we were 3 years back. We are smarter. Our dreams have changed. etc. If such is life and such is the way in which we change constantly throughout life, is monogamy - the act of holding on to one partner - really logical? *p**p*You were attracted to a person during a point in your life. You spent a lot of time together. You two know everything about each other and you see that you both are headed down different paths. In such a situation, does it make sense to continue with the old relationship or is it wiser to seek out a new partner who you will relate to better? Who will help you grow?
I know this is perhaps not the right forum to discuss gifting ideas but I am at my wits end trying to decide what to get for my girlfriend's birthday! She is someone who prefers personalised gifts and I am someone who has no clue about how to make it special that way! So, gents and ladies, please help me out!
Why is it, especially in our Indian community do men and women 'hide' the friendship they share with the opposite gender? Why can't a married man or a married woman be good friends with another male or a female?
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
Can't help feeling jealous
Why do men think that helping the wife is shameful or makes them henpecked?
What have I learnt about myself through my spouse!
Your favourite protagonist from a Classic book or movie and why?
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