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How can you be stuck? As your grow, you make better life decisions. We shouldn't get married as a matter of course, but because we need healthy, strong relationships. That is more important than your statistical age!
First of all marrying someone in haste wouldn't turn out as it should. So stop worrying. People get married after 30s also and the marriages are mostly successful because both the spouses are mature enough and settled quite well in their lives. So, marrying at 30+ is not that bad a decision. Arranged marriage and love marriage both depends upon the compatibility of the partners . So doesn't matter how you get married and when you get married but it's important is what you do to make the marriage successful.
I feel you should only consider marriage if you yourself are wanting to get married, not because others tell you it's the right time. It's a big commitment and it needs work even when two people love each other insanely.
Of course you should meet people, either through family or by yourself (if you are looking to find a companion) because you might meet someone who might make you want to get married. But the only reason you should get married, I think, is if you want to. No other reason justifies it and as Nayantara said, it's not fair to your spouse.
If you are getting married because of age or social pressure, go into it with that understanding and awareness.
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A friend of mine says that her husband helps her with chores only if she agrees not to discuss the same in his family, he is OK lending her support but no one should know, especially his mom. What is shameful in letting the world know that a husband cares for his wife?
This question is to both the sexes, would/did you bring in bigger wardrobe, move TV inside, revamp the attached bathroom or paint the walls?
They say we meet parts of 'Self' we don't even know about when in close relationships. I understood that I lie to myself convincingly and believe in my lie with all my heart. But through him, with what I experience (which mocks my lie unabashedly to my face) I know how I trick my own Self. Share something about you?
There are these two men I feel jealous about, the way my wife chats with them in parties. I know nothing more will happen, it's just party fun, but still can't help watching out for where she is when they are in the same party. Help please.
Like is it important matching kundalis in a love marriage. When we have already decided to spend life together then why should kundali act as a barrier..?????
Marriages are made in heaven, but they are lived here on earth. What makes a good, fulfilled marriage? How far do couples travel along, hand in hand, to reach this state?
Should a spouse not active and passionate in relationship, object to partner being in another relationship ?
What if kundalis don't match in love marriages??
What is the best piece of advice you ever got regarding your marriage from anyone close to you?
Has parental interference in marriages been questioned?
Do we really want to know the truth about our partners? The whole truth?
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