I'm a 30 year old doctor.. and I'm under a lot of pressure to get married..

I'm stuck. It's like my life would end if I cross 30 being unmarried. Or I will remain single for ever. Coz 30 something girls don't have time left to find the kind of spouse they want. Instead they should lean under pressure and get to married to the guy your family likes.


You are financially independent and pursuing an amazing career. Do not come under pressure. That's not the right reason to get married. Only marry when you are ready for it. Concentrate on yourself and make the most of the time at hand

  • Ankur
  • Posted: 10 Apr 2017

How can you be stuck? As your grow, you make better life decisions. We shouldn't get married as a matter of course, but because we need healthy, strong relationships. That is more important than your statistical age!


First of all marrying someone in haste wouldn't turn out as it should. So stop worrying. People get married after 30s also and the marriages are mostly successful because both the spouses are mature enough and settled quite well in their lives. So, marrying at 30+ is not that bad a decision. Arranged marriage and love marriage both depends upon the compatibility of the partners . So doesn't matter how you get married and when you get married but it's important is what you do to make the marriage successful.


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