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Love is like a Balance..once it gets into your system, it stays there for ever..(Balance..as in cycling balance.it might be decades you left cycling, but even today U can do cycling with out falling)..
This is fabulous! What a response! Thanks Shyam!
True love does not die. Like you said, the dynamics in a couple relationship changes every few months. Sometimes the dynamics become better because of positivity and love shines bright, while other times, negativity clouds the emotion of love. It is in these times of negativity that we need to unclutter our thoughts, clean the dust that has accumulated in the relationship so that love doesnt drown in the burden of this filth and dirt. Then again, if the couple doesnt clean and unclutter this, love will be lost - it will still not die. Of course, the will of the couple in keeping a relationship healthy and removing any filth and dirt that gets accumulated periodically is a must. Nevertheless, the love will never die. It will be lost. For years. With time when your heart and your eyes can see beyond the dust, dirt and filth, love will haunt you again. But by then it may just have been too late.
I think love is about keeping the fundamental aspects of daily life and living intact. Make space for each other, do not breathe down each other's neck. Whatever emerges naturally from good fundamentals can't be bad, and it can't be forced/demanded/expected. Since it's organic. Like a tree.
The point is Vikram...how do you not breathe down each other's neck!
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I want to ask the ladies and gentlemen on this forum if they have been close to a particular friend of the opposite sex before marriage and whether they have managed to maintain the same strong friendship even after they got married or has the intensity dwindled with time?
What do you do when you connect to a person very well while texting, but can hardly feel the connection in person. Is it that the other person responds over texts after thinking but can't respond well because he hardly gets any time to think when he finds you sitting right across? What do you do about the awkward silences that follow?
Do you think feminism and feminist ideas are leading to more disputes in marriages and couples?
I've seen most of the Indians having issues with PDA or Public Display of Affection or intimacy, do you have an issue? If so why?
Don't we change all through out life? Every 3-4 years we can't believe what we were 3 years back. We are smarter. Our dreams have changed. etc. If such is life and such is the way in which we change constantly throughout life, is monogamy - the act of holding on to one partner - really logical? *p**p*You were attracted to a person during a point in your life. You spent a lot of time together. You two know everything about each other and you see that you both are headed down different paths. In such a situation, does it make sense to continue with the old relationship or is it wiser to seek out a new partner who you will relate to better? Who will help you grow?
While there are many articles, blogs, discussions, talk shows, movies and even stand-up comedy routines on ‘What Women Want’, we hardly see anything that deals with ‘What Men Want’ in a relationship. Is it that, what men want from women is considered too obvious to warrant even cursory attention? Too predictable and therefore uninteresting? In your opinion, what does a man look for in a relationship?*p*
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
Why do men think that helping the wife is shameful or makes them henpecked?
One takeaway on 'love' from the year 2016?
Does romance get heightened during winters?
In a digital & chatting generation, how often do you think a relationship converts to marriage?
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