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It's your personal decision. If you can't make the family understand, if they can't or don't want to understand, you just have to resign yourself to it and do what is in your own interest.
Being in touch with your ex's family is difficult but welcoming. Although you cant expect once to be in the relationship just because his family wants you to.
I think the families and friends of someone getting divorced need to be open minded, and think with their hearts, versus instinctively jumping to the conclusion that the person who is divorcing their loved one is evil and deserves to be dumped. No one knows what went on in a divorcing couple’s home. Even if it’s your very best friend, or your son, or your sister, you really don’t know. What you know is what that person told you. You have one side.
That said, being upset with the soon-to-be ex, and having feelings of hatred or blame or anger is acceptable and very understandable. But just for a second, remember that you took your soon-to-be ex-brother-in-law or son-in-law or daughter-in-law into your family. So, now that it’s over, do you truly want that person out of your life? Does he or she mean nothing to you?
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Do you feel lost after the separation as if the everlasting love is just a myth?
Most of us get struck in our decision making stages, whether should we put in more efforts to make our relationship work, or is it the time now to say "ENOUGH IS ENOUGH! ". It takes a lot of courage to gather courage, move out of guit, realise your worth and say to yourself "I am done now! "*p**p*Everyone might have different experiences, my experience says that I forgot in my relationship, that i need to respect myself too. I started loving , caring and respecting my husband more than myself. The day I realised I have lost my worth, and he can never make my life better, I gave him second chances and finally decided to get separated and live alone.
With all the positivism of the digital world which helps us to acquire knowledge about anything anywhere within seconds of 'SEARCH', can this same digi-world be accused to have a role somewhere whose addiction has created separation among the spouse led to increased anxiety of being betrayed and played an important role in one of the many causes of divorce?
Should a spouse not active and passionate in relationship, object to partner being in another relationship ?
What if kundalis don't match in love marriages??
Has parental interference in marriages been questioned?
Do we really want to know the truth about our partners? The whole truth?
Remember the "Gift of the Magi" by O'Henry? Do we have such stories of true gifts in our married lives?
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