Common relationship problems like lack of compatibility, less understanding for each other often lead to bigger ones. How to deal with them esp when the partner is hot headed?

Common relationship problems like lack of compatibility, less understanding for each other often lead to bigger ones. How to deal with them?


 

Okay, first things first, if your partner is hot headed then they need to deal with that issue individually and only then can you work further to build communication together.

Communication is key. If verbal agreeements cannot be met due to cranky partners (they need to stop projecting), however till then use external tools such as the written word or a therapist to sort out this issue. 

Nevetheless, the long term truth is that if you can't have common understanding then you can't really have a fulfilling relationship. 

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Surabhi Pandey:

True..

In a relationship what problem could be bigger than incompatibility or not understanding each other? A good worthwhile relationship can only evolve if there's both.And you want to deal with it because of it.It's going nowhere in the long run if both exist.A relationship needs to be nurtured and that can only happen if one or the other wants it to work so if there's no understanding or the will to understand each other it's only going to be going south.

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Behavioral traits develop during the formation years of life which lay the course of future. Compatibility issues either get resolved with years of togetherness only when nurtured with patience and understanding. It's a difficult proposition though. Either you hit off well or fall apart. There is no magical potion available to set things right.

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