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After a point, it is energy and enthusiasm that keeps it going..love and compatibility does not last that long (most cases of course)
Mostly compromise, yes; but that too is often higher in percentage from one of the partners. Rarely it is both of them who do the 'adjustment' & that certainly make a marriage good in true sense!
One thing I can say from my experience is when couples give the space to to other to be weak. Just enough time. Not indulge more, but allow the needed amount. For the biggest reward from a marriage is companionship. And companionship means take care of me when I am down and out.
Companionship is the mainstay of any marriage, for often, the first flush of love turns into a more mature affection. Thank you for your view!
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A friend of mine says that her husband helps her with chores only if she agrees not to discuss the same in his family, he is OK lending her support but no one should know, especially his mom. What is shameful in letting the world know that a husband cares for his wife?
They say we meet parts of 'Self' we don't even know about when in close relationships. I understood that I lie to myself convincingly and believe in my lie with all my heart. But through him, with what I experience (which mocks my lie unabashedly to my face) I know how I trick my own Self. Share something about you?
There are these two men I feel jealous about, the way my wife chats with them in parties. I know nothing more will happen, it's just party fun, but still can't help watching out for where she is when they are in the same party. Help please.
How does one define intimacy? I feel that sometimes the simple act of holding hands can be very intimate.
Why is there a stereotyping of the husband as a henpecked man with a roving eye and living in fear of the spouse and the wife always as a nagging overbearing woman? I have noticed majority of jokes, cartoons etc shared among married friends revolve around this perception. Infact, if you have noticed the comedy element of most Indian movies, regardless of language, it also is based on the same theme.
This question is to both the sexes, did you bring in bigger wardrobe, moved TV inside, revamped the attached bathroom or painted the walls - one change you did to your bedroom post marriage!
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
Can't help feeling jealous
Why do men think that helping the wife is shameful or makes them henpecked?
What have I learnt about myself through my spouse!
Your favourite protagonist from a Classic book or movie and why?
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