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I always met people whom I have spoken to over the phone or with whom I had done lot of Face-time calls. That way I'd know it works face-to-face or not!
You know what makes awkward silence more awkward? If you start talking about it. :D So, just try be normal and act like the person you act over the phone. And, even if one of you starts talking then the other person will also ease out and conversations would be easier.
I had the same situation with a guy I met online once. Unfortunately, he just seemed like a different person when we met and things fizzled out. Looking back, I could have given him some more time and not judged so quickly. Some people are just shy!
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In the grey area
What is your pet peeve about your wife/girlfriend?
What if your relationship is like roommates rather than soulmates?
How easy or tough is it to maintain the long distance in a relationship?
Alone and Single at 50! Do we really need a partner for our later years or we can just about go through the remaining years just as easily?
A friend chats with young men, men about 10 years her junior but I see that she is the happiest of the lot amongst us. We are all righteous but angry all the time.
Top 3 priorities of a long term marriage
Should a spouse not active and passionate in relationship, object to partner being in another relationship ?
Can a man and a woman remain friends even after marriage?
I want to ask the ladies and gentlemen on this forum if they have been close to a particular friend of the opposite sex before marriage and whether they have managed to maintain the same strong friendship even after they got married or has the intensity dwindled with time?
The dynamics of a couple relationship changes every few months/years. What is your takeaway from the lat year?
Whenever our partners cannot handle our intensity they say 'don't think too much'..thoughts, comments people?
In today's times, where men and women interact freely with each other ,how do you deal with and address jealousy issues in your relationship?
Don't we change all through out life? Every 3-4 years we can't believe what we were 3 years back. We are smarter. Our dreams have changed. etc. If such is life and such is the way in which we change constantly throughout life, is monogamy - the act of holding on to one partner - really logical? *p**p*You were attracted to a person during a point in your life. You spent a lot of time together. You two know everything about each other and you see that you both are headed down different paths. In such a situation, does it make sense to continue with the old relationship or is it wiser to seek out a new partner who you will relate to better? Who will help you grow?
I've seen most of the Indians having issues with PDA or Public Display of Affection or intimacy, do you have an issue? If so why?
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