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Attraction is rather involuntary and not your fault. However, how you choose to resolve this or act upon it is upto you. As long as you dont give in to desire you should have no reason to feel guilt
no. attraction is normal. Talking about it is better than hiding it though. Sorting out jealousies, lust and love, in my opinion is paramount.
No guilt in it.
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Why are older women falling on Younger guys for fulfillment of their desires ? Somehow they are often not sexually attracted to their husbands, desire is temporarily rekindled when they suspect their husbands are unfaithful, are contemplating infidelity, or when their husbands show signs of moving on. The vacuum created due to work pressures between them. Sometimes women married for couple of years to the same person have a stronger temptation and they go in for a bit of a change in their lifestyle to experiment their libidos. Life is temporary , so let us give it a try is the motto . Infidelity is no more a sin . Of Course we are seeing from ancient scriptures . The Question is " Is there something beyond sex and lust ?
Is emotional infidelity at par with physical infidelity? Which hurts more?
Is it wrong to get attracted to someone while you're in a happy relationship?
If this is known one could reduce the "sex has become routine & hence boring" phase or "having an affair" phase post marriage??
Sex is an important aspect but when it comes to sexual abuse, the victim partner prefers to conceal about the fact.This is seen in most cases until & unless the situation become unbearable. Is it because they are shy of speaking about their partners aggressive character or because they think talking about their partners abusiveness brings in light their sexual life in-front of society?
How important is it to communicate or the way this world calls it do dirty talk during sex? Because there are things I want from my partner and I feel if I tell her she might get offended. And she doesn't utter a word while we are doing it. Is it like that? Or you should talk if you want to?
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
Why do men think that helping the wife is shameful or makes them henpecked?
What have I learnt about myself through my spouse!
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