A man’s mind space
Men are brought up differently in our society. While women are taught to submit, men are taught to be go-getters. Whether it’s in professional life or in personal, masculinity is judged on that performance. Every game is a contest for them and everyone wins a conquest. That doesn’t usually change when it comes to the woman they love either. Here are some insights into that enigmatic mind palace.
After a hot and steamy sex, the woman settles in for a cuddle and pillow talk. She asks him why he was so quiet during dinner, he says it was nothing and kisses her forehead. While for the woman, movie and dinner was the big date plan it might just be the case that the man was thinking of making the big finish that night. Though his mind might be set to skip to dessert mode, he’ll silently chant ‘Resist! Resist! Resist!’ in his mind throughout the night till you get together. So next time your man is distracted during dinner, you might just know what he’s thinking.
2. Anger is the best sauce
She comes home angry, preferably not on her man, and now she wants to talk about it. But the problem is she looks so sexy when she is angry. He just wants to shut her off with a kiss but instead, he has to listen to her. He is distracted by her passion and aggression in all the wrong ways.
3. Nonetheless, she’s hot
When you love somebody, you don’t love them for all their good traits, but also despite their bad traits. A woman may have a lot of body image issues but none seems problematic to a man who is in love with her. So when she asks him, if she’s looking fat or if she’s looking good and he doesn’t give the right answer, maybe it’s simply because he never sees beyond her beauty.