“Can love be expressed?” this question has always baffled my hubby dear..as I want it to be expressed and he is just the other way round.
Since the day of our nuptial bond he was never able to express his love for me though I severally do it always.I just can’t understand the hippocracy , as to why people feel it childishness to express love. As for me it just works as a booster.I believe we all need to feel important sometimes and if it comes from your better half it is just like melted sugar . But this I feel doesn’t works out for everyone.
Since the day of our marriage (i.e 21 years) it is I who tries to commemorate all the important dates (birthdays ,anniversary ,friendship day etc)and he is like ,”why?”
Why do we need to express it and he always has his own valid justification to support…I believe that everyone has their own way of expressing love but sometimes we should also try to curb our feelings for our partner in love .At least once in a year we should try to express even though we don’t appreciate it .
As for me, am still waiting for that spontaneity of his expression though a slight change has occurred in the recent times as now-a -days I see him at least ready for a selfie with me .Am happy with that too as he just started expressing after 20 years maybe now after another 20 years he would like to go out for a candle -light dinner with me…….