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Can’t forget my girlfriend, can’t marry anyone else. I just want to be left alone.

I have lost hope from life. Life without my girlfriend is like this for me...
sad man thinking

Dear Ma’am,

My parents are searching for a girl for me. The issue is that I can’t forget my girlfriend. When I see a girl I compare her with my girl and try to figure out what is common and if I don’t find anything I simply let off. My parents have no clue about the girl I love. We know our parents will never agree to our marriage as we are from different caste. My girlfriend tells me you marry first, then only I can marry someone in peace. We promised each other that if any help is required I will be there for her.

Now if I get to meet a girl I am confused if I need to tell her my past or not? If I marry her then I will feel that I am cheating on both. Cheating on my girlfriend that I did not marry her and cheating the other girl as I would be in love with my girlfriend. It would be emotional cheating. If at all I meet a girl, should I even say yes to her for marriage? I know that my girlfriend and I will not indulge in infidelity if I get married elsewhere.

I have lost hope. I just want to be left alone. Going outside the house is boring now. Life without her is like this for me. Am heartbroken.

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Snigdha Mishra says:

Dear Heartbroken,
You have already decided that you are not going to marry your girlfriend.

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  1. I do not know but I wonder if he is taking things too seriously or too lightly. Both of them are bad anyway. I mean he is too serious to make him feel depressed and too non-serious not to even try to tell his parents. It sucks.

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