Don’t make personal decisions based on social pressure; she might be lying for reasons of low self-esteem
You might be looking for the comfort of familiarity; if he has not really changed, it’s not ideal
Stay close to but not with your parents, if it’s difficult. Try career counselling
Don’t try to be politely vague when you say no. Make it clear it’s a refusal
Do not look at yourself as an incomplete person in search for the “better half,” but as a happy human being who wants to increase his/her happiness by sharing it with someone special.
You’ll just have to be patient and you need to give yourself a break
Your mom is not just afraid of your dad’s reaction to her decision to leave, but she might very well be afraid of a life without him.
It seems to me that there was an initial lack of trust between the two of you, which demanded giving up each other’s online privacy by sharing passwords.
It is a human tendency to get lost into the fantasy of a ‘perfect lover’ in future, when our current relationship hits rough patches now and then.
Tell your husband to be sensitive with his words. Work on your self too. A fight happens between two people.