You are in a classic fix of having to decide between two important values; your personal happiness and your marriage. It is not uncommon for married couples to live in different cities because of financial or career related reasons.
You can take solace in the fact, that sooner or later, the same is true for the majority of couples, even if you were married to a super model.
Sex is one area of our lives, where wrong choice of words and tone can hurt more than other areas. We feel the most vulnerable in our sexual natures of our bodies.
Today more than ever in the history of marriage, couples have the rights to decide their own rules of engagement.
Communicate about these important things before marriage and achieve those mutually agreed-on goals before you seal things with the stamp of marriage.