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DO NOT ever go back to such a person. Similar situation happened with my brother and the talks went ahead towards marriage. The girl backed out again saying she wont be able to adjust. Someone who has left you once for somebody else, can do it again.
If you love your current girlfriend then you should stay loyal to her. Feelings are delicate, just because she is your ex gives her the leverage but you need to act sensible
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We have some hit Hindi films where the hero is an adulterer like Sajan Chale Sasural and Maang Bharo Sajna. One thing is common among these films, they are not realistic or in any sense serious representation of marriage or affair. The films are either senseless comedies or they are stories of larger than life selfless women. On the other hand serious movies like Silsila and Kabhi Alvida Na Kehna failed despite the presence of super stars. Is it difficult for us to watch when a film on extra marital relationship gets too real? Did Silsila become even more real with its casting?
How do I deal with my husband's emotional/extramarital affair. His behaviour has suddenly changed and I have now become the other woman in his life. I have completly lost my patience,love and trust for him. How do I tackle the situation???
My sister's long term boyfriend just dumped her. She is having a hard time coping with it. How should I console her?
How to connect with a married woman?
My husband started cheating on me after we had our second child. We have been married for 7 years. Even after repeated confrontations he hasn't ended the affair with the other woman. I am keen on filing a divorce which my family and friends are advising me against. What should i do now, keeping in mind my kid's future too?
How would/did you change your bedroom after marriage?
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
You think too much!
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What have I learnt about myself through my spouse!
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