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Wish it was that simple,a great idea but difficult to implement as husband is too tongue tied in the begining.
It is up to your husband to lay down the rules about how you ought to be treated as the daughter in law by his side of the relatives. No injustice is acceptable ever.
It is important to raise both girls and boys with respect for the other gender. Not in a patronising way, that women are goddesses or men are providers; but in a grounded way. And talk to them about relationships. What to expect, what should not be tolerated. Such respect, inculcated from an early age, will eventually help remove prejudices and derogatory practices.
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A friend of mine says that her husband helps her with chores only if she agrees not to discuss the same in his family, he is OK lending her support but no one should know, especially his mom. What is shameful in letting the world know that a husband cares for his wife?
This question is to both the sexes, would/did you bring in bigger wardrobe, move TV inside, revamp the attached bathroom or paint the walls?
They say we meet parts of 'Self' we don't even know about when in close relationships. I understood that I lie to myself convincingly and believe in my lie with all my heart. But through him, with what I experience (which mocks my lie unabashedly to my face) I know how I trick my own Self. Share something about you?
There are these two men I feel jealous about, the way my wife chats with them in parties. I know nothing more will happen, it's just party fun, but still can't help watching out for where she is when they are in the same party. Help please.
Marriages are made in heaven, but they are lived here on earth. What makes a good, fulfilled marriage? How far do couples travel along, hand in hand, to reach this state?
How does one define intimacy? I feel that sometimes the simple act of holding hands can be very intimate.
How would/did you change your bedroom after marriage?
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
You think too much!
Why do men think that helping the wife is shameful or makes them henpecked?
What have I learnt about myself through my spouse!
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