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He needs to ask himself if he is okay with being in an open relationship. What is more important here though is the one person being cheated on- his wife. Please ask him to come clean with her. Why shouldn't she have her affairs too, since nothing seems to stop him!
This dude is in a major mess. This is most likely a Karmic slap for him. While he is hiding and cheating on his wife, his current lover is quite openly cheating on him. What a double triangle of affairs! I am amazed at how much an individual can cope with, combined with the regular stress of work and life!
I think ordinary people cannot value or appreciate romantic love unless it is exclusive to them. There is a strong element of possessiveness in this kind of relationship. Marriage is the socially approved relationship of this kind, which sanctions such exclusiveness. What your friend seeks, in other words is a second marriage, not in reality but in effect. On the other hand, the lady seems to be comfortable and sees no wrong in accepting and sharing her affections with yet another. From my point view, if your friend is unable to come to terms with this, it's going to be problematic for both of them.
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I want to ask the ladies and gentlemen on this forum if they have been close to a particular friend of the opposite sex before marriage and whether they have managed to maintain the same strong friendship even after they got married or has the intensity dwindled with time?
What do you do when you connect to a person very well while texting, but can hardly feel the connection in person. Is it that the other person responds over texts after thinking but can't respond well because he hardly gets any time to think when he finds you sitting right across? What do you do about the awkward silences that follow?
I've seen most of the Indians having issues with PDA or Public Display of Affection or intimacy, do you have an issue? If so why?
Don't we change all through out life? Every 3-4 years we can't believe what we were 3 years back. We are smarter. Our dreams have changed. etc. If such is life and such is the way in which we change constantly throughout life, is monogamy - the act of holding on to one partner - really logical? *p**p*You were attracted to a person during a point in your life. You spent a lot of time together. You two know everything about each other and you see that you both are headed down different paths. In such a situation, does it make sense to continue with the old relationship or is it wiser to seek out a new partner who you will relate to better? Who will help you grow?
I know this is perhaps not the right forum to discuss gifting ideas but I am at my wits end trying to decide what to get for my girlfriend's birthday! She is someone who prefers personalised gifts and I am someone who has no clue about how to make it special that way! So, gents and ladies, please help me out!
Parents expects their children to go for arrange marriage but without knowing each other how can two people be tied with one another?
How would/did you change your bedroom after marriage?
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
You think too much!
Why do men think that helping the wife is shameful or makes them henpecked?
What have I learnt about myself through my spouse!
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