Dirty Talk!

How important is it to communicate or the way this world calls it do dirty talk during sex? Because there are things I want from my partner and I feel if I tell her she might get offended. And she doesn't utter a word while we are doing it. Is it like that? Or you should talk if you want to?


 

Communication is important, but only if both are comfortable with it. Talk to your partner about talking during. Shre may have her apprehensions. And you can both work towards making it an enjoyable experience.

  • Mayank
  • Posted: 23 Sep 2016
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I find dirty talking an incredible turn on during sex. I really think that in order to enjoy your sexual experience with your partner, you must communicate your needs to her. Trust me, once you both consider each other's wants and wishes, the entire experience will become a lot more fun!

  • Deepti
  • Posted: 23 Sep 2016
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I feel there are certain words which should be avoided when you are having sex with your partner. You have every right to voice your preferences during sex but you should also keep in mind the fact that you are not filming for a pornographic movie. Using a few dirty words can have a negative effect on your partner. So I feel it is way better to take it as an act of making love and fine-tune the talks to make her feel as a part of your body.

  • Rihaan
  • Posted: 23 Sep 2016
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