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Communication is important, but only if both are comfortable with it. Talk to your partner about talking during. Shre may have her apprehensions. And you can both work towards making it an enjoyable experience.
I find dirty talking an incredible turn on during sex. I really think that in order to enjoy your sexual experience with your partner, you must communicate your needs to her. Trust me, once you both consider each other's wants and wishes, the entire experience will become a lot more fun!
I feel there are certain words which should be avoided when you are having sex with your partner. You have every right to voice your preferences during sex but you should also keep in mind the fact that you are not filming for a pornographic movie. Using a few dirty words can have a negative effect on your partner. So I feel it is way better to take it as an act of making love and fine-tune the talks to make her feel as a part of your body.
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Why are older women falling on Younger guys for fulfillment of their desires ? Somehow they are often not sexually attracted to their husbands, desire is temporarily rekindled when they suspect their husbands are unfaithful, are contemplating infidelity, or when their husbands show signs of moving on. The vacuum created due to work pressures between them. Sometimes women married for couple of years to the same person have a stronger temptation and they go in for a bit of a change in their lifestyle to experiment their libidos. Life is temporary , so let us give it a try is the motto . Infidelity is no more a sin . Of Course we are seeing from ancient scriptures . The Question is " Is there something beyond sex and lust ?
Is emotional infidelity at par with physical infidelity? Which hurts more?
Is it wrong to get attracted to someone while you're in a happy relationship?
Should I feel guilty if I feel attracted to someone while I am in a happy relationship? Does that amount to cheating?
If this is known one could reduce the "sex has become routine & hence boring" phase or "having an affair" phase post marriage??
Sex is an important aspect but when it comes to sexual abuse, the victim partner prefers to conceal about the fact.This is seen in most cases until & unless the situation become unbearable. Is it because they are shy of speaking about their partners aggressive character or because they think talking about their partners abusiveness brings in light their sexual life in-front of society?
How would/did you change your bedroom after marriage?
Why do men shy away from relationship discussions?
You think too much!
Why do men think that helping the wife is shameful or makes them henpecked?
What have I learnt about myself through my spouse!
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