India is a country with different cultures , I come from South where people are more cultured, who follow and believe rituals of the religion even more than their own life.
I am one among them but was plaughed with wrong message of “live the life you wanted” and made attempts on escape from these beliefs and rituals.
I mentioned the term escape as I know if had been bold enough to be against it I would have saved my life, but in the attempt to escape from this I got trapped in the hands of the opportunist’s who took hold of my Innocence and vague thoughts for their fulfillments.
As my attempts were more towards escaping , every decision made were wrong from choosing a wrong girl to marry, choosing a wrong course to study, choosing a wrong property , choosing a wrong car and what else couldn’t have happened.
Now all of a sudden when I realized this is not what I really wanted to do. Except for marriage I was able to reverse everything. After a long analysis wanted to start living my life with the girl whom I married and loved me.
A simple concept of am I “living my life” would have saved my life.
AlthoughI can find many excuses to get away from problem, when one day you really have a good life, things you created would have been would be the ones that were pushed to you and you may really not need them in life.
Everything is a seed of good thoughts in mind , don’t try to escape from where you are and develop yourself to grow in all aspects.
Happy that I did realize this in my young age and will fix it before I am in need to escape again.
This is the world of opportunitist’s , don’t be bluffed when one says “live the life you wanted” always keep in mind “living my life” is different from “live the life you wanted”.