Helo I'm 19..im a Hindu girl.. I'm in abroad and my boyfriend is in India..he is a Muslim.. We can't live without each other.. We wanted to marry.. He is 23 years old.. How can i marry him? What is the age for register marriage in India for girl
My husband has started to become very edgy and frustrated. It is because he feels that our income and earning isn't enough. While I have tried explaining that we live a decent lifestyle he still won't listen. He works late night and barely has a life of his own. Our romance and happiness has taken backseat. How do I tell that I am happy with whatever lifestyle we have? And all I need is him...
I am a very hurt and depressed mother. Gone are the days when children used to spend ample amount of time with their parents. When I think about my own childhood, I remember the territory of verandah all to my myself, endless nights of gossip with mom and family dinners. These days I spend more time knocking on the doors of my children. They always have an event or party to attend. Whatsapp and Fb take priority. When has asking for time to spend with my own children become a crime?
A friend of mine is going through depression. It is because of her wedding. She doesn't have the courage to say no. She has no bf issues. But is not prepared. Her parents feel that once a good opportunity is lost, it will be lost. Her feelings are considered. But I tried to speak to her parents. But it backfired on me. She teamed up with her parents, pretended to be oblivious. And now all of them have scolded and closed the doors on me. I am baffled. What went wrong?
I wish to adopt a pet. It would also help me gear up for my motherhood phobia. My husband is allergic. It is a small thing but he is completely unwilling to compromise. I feel hopeless and lost.
I and my mother-in-law share a great camaraderie. But this fact isn't liked by other relatives who point out that my MIL is going too soft on me. As a result, sometimes she behaves very differently. This is what I don't like. Her dual mentality. This has been affecting me a lot. I don't know how explain to her.
I met this man my father had fixed for my marriage. We talked for few months and then started bonding. I had a grand wedding but now that I am happy, I am quite torn to see this new side of my husband. I was stunned to note that he was okay asking for dowry. I feel broken and let down.
Is scary as well as beautiful. Too much has been said about motherhood that the very word is overwhelming. A part of me wishes to give birth to a child and the other part is still stuck. I certainly can't be like my mom, a so selfless being. And then my mind revolves around all those born children who are uncared for and need a family. Time is slipping and I am unable come to a decision.
The kind of struggle I am going through right now is emotional. It is the toughest in fact - telling my husband that I never loved him and don't love him now. I can't keep it in my chest anymore and it is actually hurting to see him try. I can't fake. But he is a good man. Telling it would break him. I did a terrible mistake of telling I love you when I didn't mean and now I am devastated.
Every couple has their share of bicker and banter but I am kind of running low on my patience. My parents are getting aggressive day by day. It is affecting me a lot. My studies, my lifestyle. Everything. I don't even know whom to say and what to say.
My wife is very caring and devoted and takes care of our children. But somehow over the years I have found her to be passive as if she has retreated into a shell. No matter how much I try to initiate a convo it is like she has no interest. I have become invisible to her. Slowly I have started to get annoyed. And feel stuck. I wish to find some love elsewhere
Including our housemaid. I don't know what has gotten into him. Maybe it is one of his phase but I am seriously troubled. I tried expressing my concern but he simply laughed it off. But his flirtatious behaviour is irking me.
Me and my cousin are best buddies. There is nothing we don't talk about. But today she seemed a little off. Like she wasn't listening and half attentive. When I asked when she is returning to her in-laws she said she doesn't know. I asked if her husband is okay she said she doesn't know. I didn't know who else to ask so I had to childishly ask their daughter and was horrified to know that her husband had hit her. It was the first time. And he was usually a very sorted and matured fellow. I am not sure what major step I should take here.
I met my perfect other half around 10 months back. We have always shared amazing similarities and great deal of connection. This was probably the reason why we developed instant liking for each other. Being very career oriented, I never had thoughts of marriage so early in life. But somehow, with the passing months our relationship has turned into a whole new level. Few days back, my parents asked about the guy I'm dating and to my utter surprise told me that they were okay with everything if the guy is good and makes me happy. I'm happy with him but the thought of him staying there always questions my mind constantly, especially after telling my parents about him. Should I give it enough time to wait and watch or discuss with him about the matter ?