Caught my husband red-handed

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Was married for a year when I realised that we lacked connection, trust and communication. One day, my husband printed my call records, highlighting the number I dialled the most with a red marker and questioned me, ‘Are you having an affair with him?’ The contact happened to be of my best friend. We discussed and I reassured that he is misunderstanding. Days went by and things took an unexpected turn when one day scrolling through his messages, I came across few intimate texts that he had exchanged with his colleague. Those two had a thing in the past and I believed that it had ended few years ago. There is a thin line between healthy flirting and dirty texting and those messages clearly fell into the latter. When I confronted him, he made up stories in the beginning, but then confessed about having feelings for her. It was then I realised that I was not the one messing up the relationship…it has always been him.

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Posted by Anonymous
Asked on June 14, 2017 7:26 am
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both of u have been partially wrong ,u should have also informed him the details of ur friend rather than him findind it,as u were making no of calls to ur friend..and what he did was of course wrong..u both have been scrolling each other msgs.which is incorrect...u can start afresh...admitting mistake..otherwise u are heading for sad times..
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Replied on June 14, 2017 9:28 am
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The fact that your husband mistrusted you was actually his own guilt!
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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 0)
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You're in a tough spot. Sit your husband and his colleague down and ask them to make up their minds. Either you'll have your marriage and your husband will know better. Or you can move on from being his wife and worrying about his loyalty
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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 0)
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Yeah. Maybe he attempted to overshadow his affair by bringing up yours. That is how he wanted things to be. He wanted to pin down the fact that it was you who was responsible for breaking up the relationship and not him. I think that is how he wanted to get rid of this relationship. To be morally sound and sympathetic in your eyes. His insecurities were already there but he thrust it upon you so that he can be one to be sympathized upon.
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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 0)
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Maybe ho got suspicious about you both and ended up getting diverted from your marriage life. Men do that pretty often. And, of course in his mind, he must be blaming you for all of this. But, I don't think it's your fault. But, that set his adrenaline on an edge which led to infidelity.
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