Childhood sexual abuse

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I was sexually abused when I was 4-5- by someone in the neighborhood. It was only 2 times and never happened again. But I grew up hating/ mistrusting men- mostly strange men. Then after I did college, and went for higher studies, sought some counselling, I was confident again. Was attracted to many men. But the first man I got most close to was a good friend. He was attracted to me too, but he has commitment issues. And refused to be in a relationship- of any kind- after once trying to get close to me. I think it is okay to be asexual if I am not in love. But I sometimes feel depressed about this kind of no-sex life. I find it difficult to like men again and feel lonely sometimes… Advice please

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Posted by Anonymous
Asked on June 6, 2017 9:07 am
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Don't feel depressed. You can't force yourself to love someone or have sex someone. If you can then it's more of lust and less of love. Let love be a plutonic feeling where your soul loves another soul and you don't need anything else to make you believe into love. Right time will come. Right guy will come. Just be patient.
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Replied on June 14, 2017 9:28 am
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Do not worry. Chin up and look around you. Make new friends and go on outings. I think what you need is some good company as far as your sex life is concerned, I do not think you need to worry much. Go out with your friends and you will find someone with whom you will be as comfortable as ever. All your fears will surely vanish then.
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Replied on June 14, 2017 9:28 am
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