The girl who is never approached

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I feel so sad and forever alone because guys never approach me and I don’t understand. I am 5’6 and weigh 125 lbs and I don’t think I am ugly. I have a babyface and since I am thin, some people think I look younger than my age (I am 21 but some people think I look 14!). I even one time ended up talking to a guy and he assumed I had a boyfriend, when I said no, he was in shock. He said I am a very beautiful girl and that he sees ugly women with bfs all the time. Strangers (both men and women) tell me I am pretty/beautiful. However, I am never the girl that is approached for dates or for my number in public anywhere! Unless men only approach ‘easy women’, and I guess I would not be classified as ‘easy.’ One time a guy cold approached and hit on a girl by asking for her number while I was standing right in front of her. This really hurt my esteem because I never get this type of attention. I keep doubting my attractiveness and that there is a possibility that i am not as attractive as some people say I am because no guys ever approach me for dates or to hit on me. They only say I am beautiful in the street and keep walking or when I happen to be in a conversation with a guy, he will tell me I am beautiful. Or, once in a blue moon, I see a guy stare at me openly and it looks like he is about to approach me but he never does it. I once caught a random guy staring at me in a train station and he looked away in embarrassment. I don’t understand why guys aren’t interested enough to approach me directly for my number or dates?

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Posted by Anonymous
Asked on June 14, 2017 7:24 am
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Yes that was best advice upthere , stay with guys flirt with them but don’t show your desperate level just make guys desperate about you. Though your desperate but dont show and yes i would like to knw you ?.

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Posted by nothankyou (Confessions: 2, Replies: 5)
Replied on August 26, 2017 3:16 pm
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I so much get you. Even though I am a guy few people as in girls say that I am cute. But no one sees me. I feel like I am ignored. All these Muscle Boys and Jocks get attention even though I am being the reasonably decent person. They think I should Play Hard to get the type of thing, so in a way, they say waste every precious minute in which he /she chances of saying yes and in the end, there is NO. I am a little easy but not that much. I have very much unique characteristics which even I find that it is so good that people should like me.
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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 0)
Replied on June 14, 2017 9:28 am
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I'm interested.
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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 0)
Replied on June 14, 2017 9:28 am
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Please stop being needy! Enjoy your life. Single life will not come back once you get in a serious relationship.Also, if guys don't ask you out, you can start flirting with the ones you like.. Also, break a few hearts, if you will ;)But please avoid being so desperate. Guys will try to take advantage of you if you will exhibit such low self esteem...
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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 0)
Replied on June 14, 2017 9:28 am
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This is the best advice
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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 0)
Replied on June 14, 2017 9:28 am
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