How can I forget my husband's affair and begin loving him again?

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I’m not able to forget that my husband had an affair and a child with another woman, although he’s tried to make up for it in the two years since I found out… I no longer feel like he’s the man I married, just a companion now. How can I forget what he did and begin loving him again?

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Posted by Anonymous
Asked on August 16, 2017 4:56 pm
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You can never forget it. You can only accept it and move on. You may just dive in and count upon time to heal your wounds but it’s very hard to completely erase it outbof your memories. It’s better if you start it from the scratch. Try to love him all over again. Visit those places from where you started the relationship. Relive those moments by recreating them. I think that is the only way out.

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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 30)
Replied on August 20, 2017 12:03 pm
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Had the tables been turned, would your husband have found it easy to forgive and forget? Blows like these, certainly aren’t. So you dont have to force yourself into something you aren’t able to. If cannot forget it, and if it is like a thorn, then better to move on. But if you can still find space enough in your heart, then as said above, you will have to pardon him for this once and take it from where you left.

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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 6, Replies: 24)
Replied on August 17, 2017 2:38 pm
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You cannot forget and it is pointless trying to. What is important is whether you can forgive. He made a mistake and apologised. That does not mean you have to accept the apology. It is okay if you cannot forgive and best to then let go. However, if you want to try to forgive then think of him as a fallible human. Concentrate on what made you like him, his qualities, and also the fact that he is repentant. It will be a long process so take it one day at a time.

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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 4, Replies: 4)
Replied on August 16, 2017 10:36 pm
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