My wife is having an affair

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I know my wife is having an affair since last time I saw her with her ex, but I pretend I didn’t notice. She is just too innocent for me, and what I could do without her nothing. I love her, and imagining her in bed with someone else makes me sick , depressed, but I am happy for her at least. We met this man at the gurudwara, he was with his wife, a very nice woman; It’s amazing how easily she can lie. She comes home and tells me how busy she was at work. And I know She used her Phone for text messages with him. I am dying every second when I see her lying! what to do? I am in mess.

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Posted by Anonymous
Asked on August 14, 2017 3:07 pm
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You need to clarify for sure. You need to be assertive if you need to be. Make sure that you find out what’s going on.

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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 30)
Replied on August 15, 2017 7:50 pm
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Buddy you need to stop being the “Nice Guy” who has taken the “Higher Approach” towards your wife’s cheating. It may help you temporarily to boost your self esteem. But believe me You can never ever salvage your self esteem if you allow yourself and your feelings and emotions to be used and suppressed. And remember, it’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking- that it’s your fault. The truth is- It never is. My sincere suggestion is collect some solid evidence and then confront her. If she admits to her cheating and is repentant you must definitely consider forgiving her. If she is defiant and not repentant , just give her the ultimatum. Also, you said imagining her with someone makes you sick but you are happy for her. This is called being a cuckold. I am not going to judge you on this. To each his own. But You have to be honest to yourself- do you like being one?

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Posted by Saurabh (Confessions: 1, Replies: 2)
Replied on August 14, 2017 3:30 pm
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The one who remains silent is equally guilty of the crime. If you love her, then you need to confront her regarding this. May be things haven’t been that bad. You can ask her where exactly you fail her or why isn’t she happy anymore. Finding some answers will help you. Fears and conjectures won’t.

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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 6, Replies: 24)
Replied on August 14, 2017 3:28 pm
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