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I wanted to share one thing- I have found myself to be an intense lover. I am always truthful in any relationship- including closest friendships. But I don’t expect reciprocation at the same level. It just makes me feel right if I am fully honest. I always end up with a heartbreak because I get too intense in romantic relationships. *p*But recently, I realized one more kind of heartbreak. A very close friend lied to me- and I discovered she had been lying about a lot of things. While I confided all secrets in her, she did kind of ditched me at an important juncture. And what was worst is that she expected me to make compromises and adjust to her schedules in the past- that even cost me more financially. *p*I am confused and heart-broken. *p*Should we be unconditional in all our relationships? Or should we be “practical”?*p*Is it because I love unconditionally in romantic relationships too that I end up hurt every time?

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Posted by Anonymous
Asked on June 6, 2017 9:07 am
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I do not think it is easy to change. There are some people we call the romantics and some the realists. It is hard to shuffle between the two at times. You may be well aware that being unconditional is not always the best option because you end up getting hurt. But you cannot still act practically because its your nature- to share everything with the person you believe in. I would say that you can show unconditional love but you should not expect it in return. That is the whole point of being unconditional. You do your best no matter what the consequences. And we all get hurt in love. So chin yourself up and move on.
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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 0)
Replied on June 14, 2017 9:28 am
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Well, being practical wouldn't fetch you less love, would it? You really can't expect someone to love you as unconditionally as you love them. So you can either be honest about your love and get hurt in return or be practical and love someone with the conditions attached and get similar kind of love back.
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Replied on June 14, 2017 9:28 am
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