wife doesnt discuss anything about her friends, her school, her routine etc.

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Due to her secretive behavior , i tried to snoop on her phone which she saw me doing. after that she has put password on her phone. although i have never tried to do that again but she is not believing me and does not share anything with me. I have tried to convince her a lot but she is adamant. It has been more than 5 yrs she is behaving like this. I love her very much ours was love marriage.We have been married for 23 yrs. It is killing me. Kindly advice. I dont have any suspicion on her i have full trust on her. I want that she should start trusting me.

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Posted by shokee
Asked on August 24, 2017 5:15 pm
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I think she did not like the fact that you spied on her. But having said that, it’s been 5 years and things are still the same. That is quite mysterious. I think you need to try new things. I am sure you did that already but still spicen it up. As a last resort, consult a counsellor

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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 0, Replies: 30)
Replied on August 24, 2017 9:03 pm
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There is definitely something that made her stop telling you. Maybe try and remember when it was that she stopped sharing. Perhaps something you said or did affected her so much that she just decided to close up as a person. And if it has been five years that does show erosion of emotions from her side. Maybe ask her close friends. Perhaps they’ll know what is on her mind. Or get a third person involved. Someone she either trusts or an outsider like a counsellor. She’s built a wall around herself and it will take a lot of effort to break it. I hope it works out for you

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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 1, Replies: 13)
Replied on August 24, 2017 8:33 pm
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I have tried my level best politely and also angrily but she says why should she share anything with me. Now for last 3 months we are not talking. I try to speak to her but she says dont speak to me. I have 13 yrs old son in home. It is affecting him also. But she is not listening to me. We have her mother also in our house. Even she is not doing anything to improve our misunderstanding.
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Posted by Anonymous
Replied on August 24, 2017 5:48 pm
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Even in marriage you need your personal space I agree. If there is something bothering one of you you need to share and talk about it. Not hide it. You should try to explain your wife that. What is it that is bothering her? Try being a friend if being husband doesn’t work.

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Posted by Anonymous (Confessions: 6, Replies: 24)
Replied on August 24, 2017 5:19 pm
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