Couple’s Confession on World Photography Day: 5 Things The Wild Taught Us

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This couple reinvented themselves through wildlife photography

He is an international award-winning photographer and she just picked up the camera out of passion. While he is a professional photographer winning accolades for his work, she is an amateur photographer who has been published in newspapers, books and websites and she makes it regularly to Editor’s Pick on National Geographic. Meet Sankha and Chandrani Kar, the couple who rediscovered their relationship while chasing lions and elephants in the wild. On World Photography Day they share how their life is nothing without answering the call of the wild.

Based in Dubai, the couple makes it a point to go to a wildlife photography expedition at least once a year, sometimes it is twice. While Africa is a personal favorite they have explored the jungles of Nepal, the national parks of the USA and the sands of UAE and its beautiful wildlife are their weekend favorites.

“We are at our happiest best when we string the cameras around our neck and are off before sunrise to shoot animals. It’s a different kind of high that’s hard to explain,” says Chandrani Kar.

Chandrani says the wild has taught them things about life and their relationship that they would have never realized otherwise.

5 Things we discovered through photography in the wild

Chandrani Kar said she has rediscovered her relationship with her husband on their wildlife photography sojourns and it has strengthened their bond and helped them understand themselves better.

1. Fear isn’t anything

This couple reinvented themselves through wildlife photography

In Africa living in a tent with a ziplock. Photo credit: Sankha Kar

Used to the security and city life of Dubai when we took the first Africa trip in the year 2008 we had no clue what was awaiting us despite all the research we had done on the net.

It was a luxury tent but it came with a ziplock. There were twin beds with mosquito nets and inside the tent there was every single amenity but I still felt so scared thinking how would a zip keep a lion away.

For the first time in our life, we felt we were each other’s bodyguards. Sankha wasn’t that scared but I insisted on sleeping on one bed and believed that if the lion came it should get us both together.

That night was the ice breaker. Then the hippo living below our cabin and making sounds all through the night didn’t really bother me, or the giraffes chomping away the leaves next to our window or the boat ride in a crocodile infested river. And the deal clincher was the hot-air balloon ride. Now I feel if I dared that I could dare anything.

But yes, we have to be together in the adventure.

2. We discovered tenacity

If we hadn’t pursued wild animals with our cameras we wouldn’t have known our own tenacity. We were used to a life where he would head to work every day, while I kept home. On weekends we either lazed on the couch or met friends and went mall hopping. Our passion for wildlife photography changed all that.

It takes hours of driving around in the jungles to get a photograph like this.  (Photo credit: Chandrani Kar)

Waking up at dawn and going around the jungles all day, sometimes forgetting to eat and drink, just looking for the perfect shot, in the blazing sun, is hard work. It is physically very exhausting because we don’t go as tourists, we are there for photography and we spend really long hours in the wild.

Mute swans at Al Qudra Lake in Dubai.  (Photo credit: Chandrani Kar)

We realized we totally transform as human beings when we are in the jungles. We developed perseverance and tenacity and could stand by each other in our common commitment to clicking good photos.

3. We developed unbelievable friendships

Chandrani and Sankha Kar exploring wildlife in the sands of UAE. (Photo credit: Sankha Kar)

From the Masai man, who stood guard at the resort we stayed in, to the driver who took us around, to the travel agent who ensures the best for us, to the cook who got mauled by a lion, to the stranger who took us to his home when we got stranded in Botswana once, we have made unbelievable friends in the unlikeliest of places. We make an effort to keep in touch with them and revisit them. We discovered goodness in people and how they are always willing to walk the extra mile even for strangers. They made us better human beings.

4. Wild animals know pure love

Zebras in Tanzania. (Photo credit: Chandrani Kar)

They have families, they feel love and they like each other’s company. That is what I realized after clicking wild animals for more than a decade now.

I love to take wild couple pictures and have built up quite a collection by now. From birds to butterflies from hippos to lions when they are around in pairs it’s a sight to behold.

Bee-eater birds in Botswana. (Photo credit: Chandrani Kar)

Their love is so genuine, pure and beautiful. They make you fall in love with nature in an unimaginable way.

5. We found our strength in the wild

We didn’t know that we had this never-say-die attitude until we started wildlife photography. It has happened that we had just returned to the hotel after a grueling day at the African Savanna with feet aching, hair disheveled and skin totally sunburnt. All we wanted was a hot bath, some food and lots of sleep. Then we spotted two hippos in their mating dance in the river flowing in front of the hotel. And back we were at our cameras.

Catching the right moment in Al Qudra Lake. (Photo credit: Chandrani Kar)

Planning our trips together, saving every penny to make it work, overcoming disappointments of flight cancellations and weather changes, surviving car breakdowns in the middle of nowhere, our bond has become strong as a couple.

Now we know we can deal with anything in life, or in the wild – as long as we get that amazing shot.

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Chandrani kar August 20, 2019 - 11:31 am

Thanks a lot to Bonobology for featuring us…

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Team Bonobology August 20, 2019 - 3:30 pm

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