Am a virgin wife for 4 years ? I don’t know why he is doing this to me . Apart this he’s trying to impress me

We always ended up in fight talking about this. Am in the edge of quiting . Does someone else have same experience

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Anonymous
June 7, 2017

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  1. You may need to be prepared for your husband being either asexual or homosexual. If you can, dig a little into his past. Did he have girlfriends? How long were those relationships? Try talking to a counsellor or get a common friend who your husband trusts involved. It's a tricky situation. All the best!*p*

  2. Absence of sex can be ground for divorce. It'll be best to talk to a therapist or expert. Try and make him understand that while you love him dearly and there is more to a relationship than sex, sex plays an important part too. Maybe put it across as something that's making you feel inept and unattractive as a wife. He needs to go to the root of this. And you need to be prepared for what could be an unpleasant answer. *p*

  3. I have heard of women who refuse sex, probably because of some fear or inhibitions. But this rare. Maybe he has a low libido or, as others in this thread have said, must be a closet gay. Either way, it’s time to confront him as soon as possible. At least know what the situation is so that you can think of the future course of action.

  4. This is farthest from normal. Like they say “men want only one thing” and it is really the case they have always sex on their mind. Like the other commenter here I would say he is impotent or gay. You need to confront him, after all you have right to a fulfilling relationship

  5. He may be a good man but with different sexual preferences, with no guts to admit it. You may be sleeping with a gay. Four years is a long time. Do not waste anymore time.

  6. Talk with him. Make him sit with you and ask all that you want to. It is only he who can speak the truth. You can surely quit, but know the reason first.

  7. This is weird! And it is def not normal! Find out what’s the issue? He could be impotent or gay. I would try and research this more for sure.

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