Can one be in love and unhappy in a marriage at the same time?

I love my husband but I am unhappy in our marriage. And I can't put my finger on what's wrong but am getting sadder day by day. Even my husband has been asking what's going on. But I don't know myself. I feel angry and frustrated but don't want to hurt him as well.

8 replies
June 7, 2017


Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:21 am
SujataRajpal June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

If one is unhappy and in love at the same time then the reason of unhappiness may not be husband but something else. Hormonal changes too bring frustration and anxiety. *p*

Rishav Ray June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

I think you are suffering from boredom. With the amount of workload we have nowadays, shared togetherness takes a backseat and our relationship becomes mechanical. I think you guys should stir some life into the fold. Plan a weekend trip or visit the places you used to visit when you were iin the beginnings. I think it will be the spice that your relationship lacks at this moment.*p*

Ayushi June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

I think you are not able to open up properly about your problems to your husband. You have to open and share everything which is going on in your head. He is the one who can help you and bring back the happiness in your married life. You aren't getting distant but you're just not able to see the closeness between each other. Just talk to him and tell him everything you want to tell. *p*

I am Krishna June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

Boredom will not make you unahppy na? *p*

I am Krishna June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

But don't you mess things permananetly when you say things you shouldn't Christina? *p*

I am Krishna June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

What are you unhappy about? Love has nothing to do with happiness. Is it that you are not doing something because you love him which is making you unhappy? *p*

TuliBanerjee June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

From all that you wrote, I can comprehend that you are unhappy. But how can you be happy at the same time? Ponder and try to figure out what makes you unhappy.*p*

christina June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am

behna pyar bhin and nafrat bhi.Kehte hai thery are the two sides of the same coin..That is the ideal relationship in a marriage.Either pick up a nasty fight where you say all the things that you have bottled up the ugliest possible things  and then kiss and make up and how.It should be a balm on his scorched heart .Or if you are too scared and worried to do this then do knitting needlework crochet ,this is the certified by people who know to put you in the right trqck away from confusion ,Mostly knit a sweater for has lovely designs.*p*

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