Distrust and Doubt Kill A relationship

What if he doesn’t trust me despite my 100 per cent faithfulness towards me. I have proved him wrong every single time with evidences etc whenever he has doubted me, he still won’t back off. It breaks my heart every time. How do I handle this?

3 replies
Swati Mehra
July 26, 2017


Swati Mehra July 28, 2017 - 9:26 am

Thanks Hridaan and Mallika.. That is exactly what I though – he is way too insecure! just needed to hear it from someone else’s mouth. I guess I will have to be a little stern with him.. as suggested by you guyz. Thanks!

Mallika Oberoi July 27, 2017 - 11:48 pm

The problem is not with you, but more a result of his insecurity. A relationship is built on trust. And if he can’t trust you the it’s best for both of you to end it. Otherwise neither will be happy. No matter how much evidence you show. Eventually he will expect a report on your daily movements, not let you leave the house without him etc. I have known friends who had boyfriends like that and saw them slowly wither away in the relationship. Try giving him a taste of his medicine. Maybe then he will realise how overbearing he is

Hridaan July 26, 2017 - 9:05 pm

I think he is very insecure. Its very hard to make him believe that he has nothing to worry because doubting has become his habit. I think its time you assert the fact that you will be forced to discontinue the relationship if he continues to distrust you because eventually you are going to get frustrated and end the relationship. So its important that he gets a wake up call.

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