Dominatrix

This is a very personal matter but I feel the communities section of this website might help me. My wife likes to dominate while having sex. She always tries to have an upper hand and doesn’t let me take control. It’s fun most of the times but still I would also like to have charge sometimes in the bed. What should I do so that it doesn’t ruin my sex life but make it better?

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Anuj
June 7, 2017

4 Comments

  1. Maybe your wife is apprehensive of letting go. Try and understand what is making her uncomfortable. It could be a past experience. Though I would say sex isn’t about having an upper hand, either way!

  2. Just take the upper hand or do whatever that makes you feel comfortable during sex. You deserve to have as much fun during the most intimate period of your life as your wife!

  3. Take turns. Talk to your wife about it. Be sure you both stay within each other’s comfort zones. If communication stays open, you both may have a lot more to discover.

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