Getting attracted to another person while in a relationship. Is it something to be guilty of?

Should I feel guilty if I feel attracted to someone while I am in a happy relationship? Does that amount to cheating?

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Debjit Bhattacharyya
June 7, 2017


  1. Getting attracted is normal, but taking the attraction forward is what can be problematic. where does one draw the line?

  2. no. attraction is normal. Talking about it is better than hiding it though. Sorting out jealousies, lust and love, in my opinion is paramount.

  3. Attraction is rather involuntary and not your fault. However, how you choose to resolve this or act upon it is upto you. As long as you dont give in to desire you should have no reason to feel guilt

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