How do I deal with my unfaithful husband? He cheats, gets caught and repeats. What do I do? Swati Mehra June 7, 2017 Swati Mehra June 7, 2017 How do I deal with my unfaithful husband? He cheats, gets caught and repeats. What do I do? 11 repliesSwati MehraJune 7, 2017 11 comments Anonymous July 13, 2017 - 10:22 am Rishav Ray June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am If he is doing it repeatedly then I am sorry to say that this reltionship is going nowhere. You should consider opting out. It will be more devastating if you have a kid. If I were you I would file for divorce already.*p* Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am You are absolutely right. I need to be strong and I need to take a step today!*p* Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am his reltionship is going nowhere*p**p* *p**p*Sad. Hurtful.. but I guess It is True!*p* Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am You are right…*p* Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am thank you for the detailed insight. I think it is only my concern for my son which is holding me back. I will try and resolve things fr one last time and then see how things go. I def need to take a stand now!*p* Swati Mehra June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am You are right. i am financially independent. I think it is for the sake of my son. But I need to take a stand now. thanks*p* Amrendra Jha June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am Dear Swati,*p**p*I am pretty sure that you are a strong woman, who has been enduring from your husband ill will. Your suffering won't go in vain. *p**p*Let's talk about your story. I don't know how many years you spent with him. Whether you already have kids or still to figure out? Are you staying only with the husband or having a big family? So there might be n number of questions before I could suggest you some remedies to your problem.*p**p*Marriage is not platonic it's union of two bodies. How strong is the relationship is directly proportional to how strong you are as an individual. You are saying that he kept on cheating you and you have been watching him like a mute. That is the only part surprised me. *p**p*If you would love yourself, heed my advice that doesn't ever see the troubled marriage as an opportunity for divorce. Think different and figure out the different ways to save it. Did you get a job? or search one. Bring parallelism. For few days, ignore your husband's activities: scolding, abusing, praising another woman, treating you second class etc. Turn blind eyes to his act for a while. All this will create a void that allows realization of his sinful intentions. *p**p*He has a habit of you. It is quite obvious you also participate in a verbal spat. Try to listen all the nonsense. Minimize or stop replying him. All these small steps confidently could bring a positive change. *p**p*Why am I talking this? because separation is not the solution. Not a single person is bad on this planet. Only their deeds are bad that can be corrected with proper willingness.*p**p*All the best. Drop me reply if you have still something to say!*p**p*Best~*p**p*Amrendra*p* AshwinaGarg June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am It might be a good idea to figure out why you stay with him. Is it for the children or the financial security? Those are very valid reasons for staying with someone. If these are not an issue, you might think about leaving him.*p* modernromeo June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am What excuse does he give? Why do you stay with him? *p* Aman Singh June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am You must be a really considerate woman that you gave him a chance to repeat his mistakes so many times. And, since he has done has more once, I don't see how forgiveness is gonna help the situation any more. So a last ultimatum may be?*p* Aman Singh June 8, 2017 - 8:56 am You should not have forgiven him for more than one time! He took an advantage of your mercy and kept cheating on you over and over again. Give him a divorce and find someone who's faithful to you. Fidelity is probably the most important aspect of your relationship. *p* Leave a Comment Cancel ReplyYou must be logged in to post a comment. This site uses Akismet to reduce spam. Learn how your comment data is processed. previous post What is with Hindu Muslim Love stories? Why do people get all patriot and stupid when they listen of one such story? next post What do I do for romance when I am miserably single!?